What not to do to scare her away....?

Question

When does one know they are going too fast? You meet them things are great, exchange contact info and how much in the first week is trying to contact them too much?

What are possible ways to repair any damage, if possible? I've only contacted her twice in three days but I'm thinking that's too fast.

I don't think I've done anything wrong (yet) but I want to know as I'd really like to get to know this woman.

Answer 1

Twice in three days? I would be flattered if a man was that considerate and diligent about contacting me. It doesn't seem unreasonable to me at all.

I'd wait a few days before trying again, though, with the holidays and all she might be busy.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Start treating her like crap. Be unavailable. Be unreliable. Be untrustworthy. She will start to hang on your every word the next time you talk to her. Women like being treated like crap. They will try and do anything to please a man who treats them like crap.

It's possible to repair the damage, but stop calling her like a stalker. It makes you look desperate and pathetic. Instead, the next time SHE calls, tell her you can't talk because you're with some other chick right now. See how that works?

Answer 3

I think you should call her more, not less. You should follow her every movement. By hiding in the bushes outside her house and going through her rubbish you will be able to learn more about her.

Answer 4

when you know your going too fast, 'she will tell you'
your not doing anything wrong, accually your doing just fine.☺
don't change what you do.
if you end up doing something wrong, say sorry and fix it slowly.
i hope you get to see her often cause thats the best way to communicate.
hope i helped ♥MARI♥
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Answer 5

Just bang her and quit worrying about all that.

Answer 6

fart when on a date.