2006-12-25 10:36:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm that's a very interesting question and very worthwhile. I think many women would like to ask this question and yet there is no authority that deserves the honour of answering it, but I'll try. Being pretty definitely helps in everything you do: finding a partner, progressing in your career and especially for careers in front of the camera. Other than that, it's not important. If you have confidence, which is damn damn important, then it doesn't matter if you're good-looking. Ordinary looking women can be very successful too and ultimately in your career, you have to produce results. women who use their sexuality to get what they want can play that game for only a while, because when there are fresh faces on the scene, who wants old women. I think women need to break out of this mould that society has created for them that they have to be attractive. If men don't have to be beautiful then logic follows why should women? After all, we believe in equality for men and women. A woman should be caring, kind and honest (as all people should be regardless of their gender)....i guess the long answer shows it's a question i've been thinking about too. :)
2006-12-25 10:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by hollym 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, more than pretty, it's important to take good care of your appearance. Maybe you're not pretty because God, or life, or nature didnt give you natural beauty, but you can fix that taking care of your looks (look clean, hair, make-up, personal fitness, accesories, good taste in dressing). All this, however, it's included in your own personality, if you're optimistic and love yourself (you have to love yourself first before loving anyone else) then you'll take care of your appearance.
Merry Xmas!!!
2006-12-25 18:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by Abbey Road 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! If you want to attract quality men, then being important is a prerequisite for consideration only. Don't think that if you are just pretty, you can have whatever you want. You have to be cool too.
If you are not skinny and have big boobs and have a nice face, be prepared to pay your way through everything in life. Also be prepared to have sub par men who do not make too much money vying for your hand. Don't be delusional and think that your prince will come someday. He is too busy looking at someone prettier than you.
2006-12-25 19:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First off anyone can be "pretty" Take what ever you have been given and work on enhancing it. Dress well , smell nice, have a nice smile and and a good personality and most men will be open to talking to you.
Look around ... you will see lots of women that if they did not "work" to be pretty they would be very plain !
Work on loving what you have been given ... If you don't believe your pretty or worthwhile NO ONE else will either. Get yourself a mantra ... "I love myself and I am worthy" repeat it to you believe it !
2006-12-25 18:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by yeah , yeah whatever 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a spectrum. They can't pass the "untouchable" line other than that it is all game. What defines "untouchable" is the man's preferance. As long as they don't have a mole so huge or green theeth and have a pretty healthy face and body it is good.
2006-12-25 18:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Where in the world do you women come from?
YES, it is important to be pretty, its also important to be smart and have a little class about yourself. Its also important not to be slutty or skanky, its also important to stop obsessing about your looks! A guy will like you if you love yourself! Self esteem is a girl's best feature!
2006-12-25 18:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, men tend to place more value on physical appearance than personality. That being said, though, the good news is that different guys have different ideas of what's pretty, so no matter what you look like, you're bound to appeal to someone. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-25 18:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by tangerine 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I'd hesitate to call it important, but it helps. Attractive people tend to go much farther than ugly people in all walks of life. Don't ask me why, but it's true. (Good thing you and I are pretty, eh?)
2006-12-25 19:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Beauty doesn't come from a bottle nor nature. Real beauty comes from within yourself and your mind. If you stop and give this some thought, you'll see it is very true. Love yourself for being yourself, not for looking like a magazine cover.
2006-12-25 18:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If a women likes and respects herself, she's automatically pretty. If she doesn't...she can look like a fashion model, but her looks will become meaningless to whoever she's with after about a month.
2006-12-25 18:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋