DAUGHTERs ?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11111?

Question

im in college . 20 years old in other words im not ready to get married but i saw some fathers /moms with daughters and i want that
because my daughter will be the most beautiful human being god ever created because her daddy is hott as hell.. i want a girl who i can spoil she'll be so spoiled that no man will be ever good enough for her she'll always be daddys lil girl and idc what you people think about spoling kids , I LIKE THAT !!!
i know some of you will put smartass answers like " why dont u just spoil ur gf" because spoiling your gf's isnt good lol they will bit*h on you ... god knows why do girls always want to be treated bad ,, weirdos yeah i know .. anyways here are my Qs
what do u think aof me getting married at that age ?
what do u think of my theory " spoiling gf's is a bad thing to do"
lol
thanks

Answer 1

Sweetheart you sound uneducated and/or uninformed.

Firstly, you dont just "get married" at your age, it doesnt happen just like that-and if it does its for the wrong reasons.

Secondly, you might have a boy, then what would you do? Hah.

Seems like you just want a girl, so you can spoil her, and have a child to look up to you for all of its wants and needs. You sound insecure and needy to me;

Quote: "she'll be so spoiled that no man will be ever good enough for her she'll always be daddys lil girl "

In other words, she will be so brainwashed by you, that you are to be the only man in her life-that she will have no true loving relationship of her own-OR will treat other men badly, like they are not deserving of her.

Where are your morals? Thats the least we need for the next generation-a generation of spoilt brats. Imagine if everyone thought like you-thankfully they have the intelligence not to!

And...Thirdly, you dont have a child, to spoil it and encourage it to take advantage of others. And you dont have a child based on those "principles".

My child is going to be bought up to be strong, determined, intelligent, kind and caring.

Your future children sound like a handful to me.

You really need to evaluate your life, if your ready to settle down and have a child at 20 years of age. We already have enough unwanted children in the world, without yours added to it.

Have a child because you are in love with your partner and because you want to be a loving parent-NOT because you are insecure and immature, and need the admiration of a child to fulfill your insecurities.

Grow up.

Answer 2

I think that you shouldn't have children until you find a woman that you want to marry and want to spoil as much as you would like to spoil your daughter. Your future wife and kids will be very lucky! Spoiling a gf is bad if you are dating women who just want to take advantage of you. And yes many women will use guys for the stuff they can get or to brag to their friends about what they can get you to do for them. So playing it cool and not spoiling them is probably a good plan.

Answer 3

i think you should learn to spell right and talk someone who could be a father. i have nothing wrong with being spoiled of course but your only problem that i can tell is that you dont know how to talk like a mature person and you seem to think that the only thing you have to do as a father is buy stuf. its more than that and you need to learn this. grow up, wait a few years and find a good women that you KNOW you'll be with forever and THEN start thinking about kids. make sure the women you end up is going to be with you forever. kids get messed up when their parents split. good luck with all that

Answer 4

My sister-in-law met my brother when she was 14 and got married to him when she was 21,she also had a baby at 21 and took it all in her stride but she didnt have a theory like yours,maybe your expectations are to high.
What would you do if your child was born with a disability?
I used to care for a 6 year old child who was severly disabled yet she had a brother and sister who were able bodied so it doesnt just happen to people with disabilities that run through their families.
You need to sit and think of everything like this before you plan for a perfect child,whats perfect anyway!!

Answer 5

If you spoil your daughter you'll mess her up and she'll never be happy. Do you really want that for your daughter?

Spoiling your girlfriend depends on what sort of a girl she is. Some won't respect you for it, some girls need as much encouragement as possible to be happy

Answer 6

i have been with my now hubby for 19 years. when we got together we would always say if we had kids they would be gorgeous. we were always told we were a handsome couple. we now have 2 children and yes they are the more beautiful girls god put on this earth but we waited 5 years before we had our girls and my god they were Worth waiting for, so hang on in there wait for the right girl then, good luck to you, but you wont beat my beauty's lol x x

Answer 7

That's so sweet, u wud be a great dad but here is wat i think about ur question? u want to get married...only coz u want a daughter to spoil, but u r scared as marriage is huge step...I think u shud hold on for couple of more years but can always spoil ur nieces or cousins..n get the experience n than once u get married u wud know everything about pampering a young girl. hope this helps...its just a thought!

Answer 8

u . s . a . followed a phoenetic equipment of spelling and dropped the u from many of their words (favour, colour and so on). The English way of spelling it (used interior some thing else of the international) is honour, yet honor is basically as valid if you're american. I do imagine 'honour' seems extra formal, so if that's the feel of your wedding ceremony then I say use it no matter when you're american.

Answer 9

so what the holy hell is your question...i agree, i mean if i have a kid i'll spoil her/him...but not too much, cuz that will lead to bad situations.. so be careful spoiling a kid too much won't help, cuz she will ask for more cuz you're willing to give more until your pockets are empty

Answer 10

my opinion on getting married?
when you meet the right person go for it. 20 isn't too early.
the spoiling a gf?
yeah that's true they do b*tch about it a lot, but it's not always because we want to be treated badly, it's because it makes us feel beneath you.
that's why i like getting presents for my bf.
but i see wut u'r saying.
spoiling u'r daughter?
fine with me. just make it so she also works for things when she's older and teach her respect. you can spoil her until you live in a cardboard box, but make sure it gets her sumwhere.