i am soo scared..........he said if i loved him i would do it but im only 14 and i dont wanna get pregnant.............but you no i always wondered what it would be like
2006-12-25 10:21:27 · 32 answers · asked by Makayla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oral should satisfy his needs.
2006-12-25 10:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes you did the right thing. You are also right about not wanting not to get pregnant. Make sure you always use some kind of protection when you decide to have sex.
When you make love for the first time it should
because both of you want to.
Just to find out what its like ... can take you down the wrong path. It's usually not all the pleasant for the first the first time ... it's going to be more pleasant if it's with a guy that doesn't tell you that if you love him you'll phuck 'em. Find a guy who wants to give you the moon ... and not just dip his wick. He's out there.
2006-12-25 10:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont Do It 14 Is Too Young Man! And Condoms Dont Always Work!
2006-12-26 08:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young lady, there's plenty of time for that stuff later on in life. First, finish high school. But before you graduate from high school you should already be thinking about what you want to do afterwards. Upon graduation from high school begin to pursue your plans. Also you said that you didn't want to get pregnant, first I would suggest that you abstain from it. Just don't do it! Second, if you did you should use some sort of protection.I don't want to go too deep into it, but condoms also protects you from STD's (sexually transmitted diseases such as herpes and AIDS). There are just a world downfalls to having sex at an early age that you don't understand yet. I suggest talking to your mother or another trusted older female on this matter.
Take care, Honey. And Merry Christmas to you and your family!
2006-12-25 10:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by Deke O'Malley 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did the right thing for saying NO. Pls wait you are still young don't ruin your life for just having fun. Enjoy your youth and soon enough as you grow older into a fine lady you would know you made the right choice by waiting. If this guy really loves you he will not push into something you are not ready for, trust me all guys want is sex. He may just use and leave you and coming of this would be painful. At least wait until you are old enough and find the right guy than its worth it. Good luck
2006-12-25 11:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel it isn't right then you are in power to not to. As long as you do it at the right time for both of you is really when it is worth the experience. 14 years old why so soon anyway? Wait until a time when your set and ready. And besides common sense if he doesn't love if you don't have sex find a new guy.
2006-12-25 10:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Poor SOB. I wish I could side with him, but NO! You do not need to totally screw up your life for some dude you will probably be dating for a few months.
Wait!
At 14 you have no idea what you want in a guy and getting knocked up or getting a disease will ruin your next several years!
I'm a guy and we're all slugs, we want sex it's that simple! But at his age all he is thinking about is sex. He has no intention of marrying or staying with you. Even if he thinks he does if a few years you will be saying... "What the heck was I doing with that dork"!
People change, you will not have the same interests in a few years you do now.
Please wait. :)
Several reports released recently – by Advocates for Youth and the Alan Guttmacher Institute – conclude that half of all young Americans will get a sexually transmitted disease by age 25.
Millions of young men and women – and kids, at 15 years old – receive genital wart virus, trichomoniasis and chlamydia each year.
http://www.helpingteens.org/article-0083.html
2006-12-25 10:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by oldfatcowboy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if your bf loves you than he should go with your opinions too. If you are scared then he has to give you more time and not put you under pressure. Just remember that it means more to you than to him. Besides, you are 14. Just because you are curious what it feels like to do it, doesn't mean you should do it.
2006-12-25 10:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anaksonamun 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think u did the right thing. If he loved you he wait to have sex untill your ready. But if the only thing ur scared of is geting pregnant then use protection and maybe birth control.
2006-12-25 10:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will wonder what it's like until you do it. It's some natural curiosity all humans have.
Don't let your boyfriend push you into something you're not ready for. Don't do something you don't want to do. Are you your own person? Do you have reasoning abilities? Can you think on your own? Do whatever you want to do! Don't let another human being make you do something you think is wrong! Just don't!
2006-12-25 10:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be patient. Tell him to wait unless you know each other. He may be interested only to use you. You are only 14 and at this age it's natural instinct but take care. If assured of no harm please take the necessary precaution of birth control as well as safety towards STD.
2006-12-25 10:34:05 · answer #11 · answered by Pramod 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋