2006-12-25 10:13:06 · 8 answers · asked by bobbo 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I do not think this is a copable situation. It must be terribly difficult for you. It will take time and you will need to keep reaching out to others. Talking with others who knew and loved him is probably a good idea. The shock, trauma and grief involved in this kind of death is hard to accept. Professional grief and trauma counselling is also important so you can move through "easier". Not easy but imperative for your own health. Condolences to you,
2006-12-25 11:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by st.uncumber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry about your loss, especially around this time of year it must be so depressing.
You have not mentioned how long ago this happened, Im assuming it must be quite recent.
Try not to be alone, I know that you probably want to be, but there are probably people, family and friends who care about you and what you are going through. There must be so many what-ifs and perhaps regrets about certain things. You have to work towards a new future, and learn to let go of the pain of losing him and just remember all the good times you had together, and keep in your heart the knowledge that he loved you too.
Remember that this life is merely a transistion, sometimes our loved ones have to leave earlier than we would like them to. But one day we will be reunited with them again and this life in this world will become a distant memory.
For the time being try to stay strong and look after yourself.
2006-12-25 19:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult. Try to find a support group and look foreward so you can to rebuilding your life. It is hard work. But know there are many out there that love you and support you as you attempt to get through you day.
2006-12-25 21:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by copestir 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be mean or rude, BUT there is a saying:
"The best way to get over a man is to get under a new one."
Translation:
Cherish the memories with him, but go on living.
2006-12-25 18:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by r_e_a_l_miles 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep him alive in your heart, get closer to Jesus and pray for strength. Keep talking to us and don't keep it inside. Cry as much as you have to and take a year or so off with relationships and let your life come full circle naturally.
2006-12-25 18:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by bman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is really sad what happend. try not to keep it inside of you, talk about him, let him live in your heart and memories. at the same time, maybe it would be good, if you seek profesional help,to get someone to help you to get over this tragic event asap.
2006-12-25 18:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Eli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By giving it time, talking to trusted friends or family.
2006-12-25 19:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to me i'll be your support dogmicjoe@yahoo.com. i assure u he is in a good place watching over u with protective eyes. try beliefnet.com fro support and holisticonline.com and 1stholistic.com
2006-12-25 19:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋