Like i said before, he told me a few weeks ago that he thought he was in love with me, and though he was drinking, he was not drunk. When we WERE going out, a few months ago, he cheated on me. It did hurt, but i forgave him, and he was sincerely sorry. I think i tried convincing myself that it would take a LONG time to get back with him, and i told him that. However, recently he was in court, and that day i realized i honestly, truly cared for him. I found out that he was seeing someone for about a month, and just found out they are now going out, as of today. I cried, my heart feels shattered, and i have never felt like this over a guy before. I told him last night that after he wasnt busy ffrom all the holiday shi* to let me know so he could come over because i want to talk to him personally about the way i feel.
*Please give me your honest opinions* THANK YOU*
2006-12-25 09:40:26 · 8 answers · asked by . 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i didnt tell him that i want to talk about the way i feel, i just told him that i want to talk to him in person about something.
2006-12-25 09:42:00 · update #1
go for it
or always wonder what if
2006-12-25 09:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should never tell a guy how much you love him. Besides if he cheated on you already! Take my saying like a friend advice , look at yourself. You say you've never been like this and you can not forget him , right? You are suffering now , you want to do something , you want to talk to him crazy! I got you , you are crazy about him now. But don't say this to him! If he knows that you belong to him , you will loose him. Be strong! Wait until he feels like how you feel now! If you love more , you cry more ; never forget that.. Don't say loving him! Maybe you can say you like him but never confess without being sure about his feelings. You already called him , ok , don't be regretful. If he comes over , try to have fun. A little flirting makes you feel better but NEVER , EVER confess anything without being sure.
Happy Holidays , good luck
2006-12-25 09:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay breath already. First, he's already cheated one you before. Second, he's already seeing someone else. Third, he was in court, but for what now? I know loosing someone you truly care for is really hard. It always is. This guy's just going to ruin your life in the long run and probably even come home with news like, "Hey, we should get tested for syphilus", or even "I have to go to court for a paternity DNA test and child support tommorow". Not something you really need to have dumped on you. Plus, you can find someone more worthy of being called a human being than this I'm sure.
2006-12-25 09:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't have this problem with my husband... He WILL listen and engage in a constructive discussion. There have been certain issues that we resolved to our mutual satisfaction by talking it over (and yes, sometimes arguing it over - but arguments can be constructive too). I have an awesome husband, really. In your case, I would recommend identifying his weak points, and learning how to "manipulate" him (in a good way). Perhaps the way you approach an issue sets him off - try to approach it in a different manner. Also, you can't try and make every single thing conform to your expectations; some things will never change, and you have to make peace with it. Good luck.
2016-05-23 06:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow. well if it'll make ' you ' feel better then tell him. but i mean, if he cheated on you before what makes you believe* that he will not do it again? you have to trust yourself a little in this situation too. dont be fooled and dont let yourself get hurt. do what is right for you, even if that means not getting back up with him. this is one of those ' its about you ' situations. so just follow your heart. and i mean your heart** not your lust, and not your want to get over your lonsomeness. just follow your heart.
2006-12-25 09:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is disrespecting u and makin u feel low annd the whole point of having a boyfriend is to support u and make u feel good when u down it seems as if he is the one puttin u down so screw him and get someone 2 make u feel good about urself. u can do move on gurl!
2006-12-25 09:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guys a player and a loser. Move on.
2006-12-25 09:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by Scott C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be live what you want but see him for what is real..
2006-12-25 09:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋