Ok, theres this girl i really like. I am an indian christian guy. and she is an iranian (im not sure but i think muslim ) girl. I really like her. But the thing is i dont know if i am allowed. My religion/culture (mayalam) says that were are not allowed to date/marry someone of a different religion. My question is, is it weird or bad to like someone of a different religion if your religion says you cant. I honestly dont care about culture or relgion in this case. But my family will. PLZ HELP ME!!! I really like this girl and need as much help as possible!
2006-12-25 09:37:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Please get out while you are saying you like the girl, rather than love her. Your family and your religion are more important than this girl. Your family are your roots. Stay with them, and find a different girl. Why ask for more troubles than you can handle????
2006-12-25 09:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I understand what you're dealing with; I date a guy of a distinctive race and this is been complicated getting human beings to settle for our courting; even our families. there's no longer something incorrect with liking somebody of a distinctive faith. one ingredient which you're able to desire to think of roughly (and this is probably no longer a controversy for a at the same time as) is that as quickly as you date a religiously religious individual is which faith you will strengthen the babies. in the event that they are going to be attending centers for the two religions, how can you split it? Will they take turns going with one at the same time as the different better half remains residing house or attends their very own centers, or will you attend centers as a kin? some human beings locate it much less complicated to stay interior their race/social status/faith for basically that reason. yet, if babies are a mode off for you, there's no harm in giving it a pass.
2016-11-23 16:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmMmHmmMmm... let's see.... you are a an indian christian guy and she is a an iranian...
the power of love has no boundaries!!! nothing in the whole universe could prevent two persons from loving each other... culture, customs, traditions, death and even religion could never prevent love from seeking its shelter in the hearts of 2 persons who love one another.... Love itself is a Religion.... there is nothing that may hinder it... it is uncontrollable... and nothing... absolutely nothing must hinder you from loving her the rest of your life... religion does not matter since all religions are just "translations" of one religion... it is just the matter of how we people interpret it,,,,, i'll guess,,, the greatest commandment in your religion as a christian is to love right? then why would your families prevent you? why in the world could you two not marry each other? NOTHING!!! is it because of religion? NO!!! LOVE cannot be controlled,,,, nor hindered
in our world today, where the constant battle of life is fought, we, as people who search for our partners for life must never mind of those social discriminations (race,culture,religion,etc.), for if you two really love each other, then go and love one another till you enter the days of a lifetime...
nothing could hinder the POWER of love..... :)
2006-12-25 10:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by a_n_o_n_y_m_o_u_s 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One thing about this situation is, your family does not have to live with her...you do!
I don't know every religion but in most religions it speaks of forgiveness and love.
2006-12-25 09:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by letfreedomring 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a true Muslim girl, no luck, unless you embrace Islam (ie Testify their is no diety worth of worship except for God, and that Muhammad is the last and final messenger) if you do this truly to please God, and not just so you can marry her, then you will be on the straight path. And marry this girl you like, and be on path to heaven.
but know this
[031:023] And whoever disbelieves, let not his disbelief grieve you (O Muhammad [Peace Be Upon Him]). To Us is their return, and We shall inform them what they have done. Verily, God is the All-Knower of what is in the breasts (of men).
2006-12-25 09:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love knows no boundaries. You just have to decide which consequences you want to take on. You are a free being and can choose your path...those who don't accept it leave behind.
2006-12-25 09:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How can you say you love her,you dont even know which religion she belongs to. Learn more about her first.
2006-12-25 09:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by Tomoyo K 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Do what thou wilt should be the whole of the law. Love is the law, love under will." - A.Crowley
2006-12-25 09:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sir Alex 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes! the thing to do is teach her the true God, and the true Savior! Preach to her the Bible, let her take Jesus into her heart and she can be saved from her sins.
2006-12-25 09:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋