We went out yesterday - it was a jazz music festival and he was seriously concentrating on this other woman sitting close to us. We have had fights about this in the past and he continually promises to change and he doesnt stop. He admitted today that he indeed has a problem and cannot just stop looking. There is a look that is totally ok an normal for everyone but he stares and literally drops everything [eg, my hand] to feast his eyes. Every other couple around us were all loved up in each others arms and dancing, but him he was jus gazing at every woman but ME!! I can't go on feeling like he's looking for something/one out there. And what happens when I'm not around? Is he gonna do more than just ogle?? It gives me a bad feeling and is so embarrasing especially when the other woman realises that your man is checking her out and gives you either that "I'm so much better than you" look or the "poor thing" look. Can I have a witness out there??
2006-12-25 09:27:54 · 8 answers · asked by Bootilicious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh dear. Get over it. You probably do the same thing to men
2006-12-25 09:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by i'm bored and fed up 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it somewhat is not suitable or respectful. no longer all men are like this. Ask him to give up and if he would not then start up heavily finding out different men precise in front of him. make certain which you do flow even added (asking for numbers etc) just to make an surprising impact on him that he can no longer ignore approximately and could no longer ever ignore. that's the only way for him to truly study the way you sense. as quickly as he realizes the way you sense he would be attentive to what you probably did became basically for impact and not genuine.
2016-10-28 08:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by ridinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you to a point.I'm not saying its wrong to look at other women,which one of us can say we have never 'window shopped'? But when it gets to the stage when they are slobbering all over the window its time to stand up for yourself.Have you spoke to him about this?I think he loves you or he wouldn't be with you but maybe he is taking you for granted a little.
2006-12-25 13:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by dj fusion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your husband loves you...I get the feeling he is watching a lot of internet porn...I dont know how well he can control himself from moving out of fantasy into reality...all guys check out good looking girls. it doesnt mean they are going to run away with them
2006-12-25 09:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Silent white cloud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just check out some other guys!
He'll get the message!
2006-12-25 09:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know how you feel and then do it to him and after the next night out ask him how he feels when the tables are turned, good luck
2006-12-29 01:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by MAD FEMALE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip that's men
2006-12-25 09:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by toon_tigger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some man r dogs
2006-12-25 09:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋