There is this girl who has said that she likes me and i told her that i like her. We have off from school for a month now and before we left i told her that i liked her and she told me the same. She asked me if i wanted a relationship and i said that i wouldnt mind one. She said that she is going to think about it over break. She also said that she gets nervous when she is around me. Since break we have talked almost everyday on AIM. I would like to know if you think she will want a relationship. Also i would like some advice on if she doesnt bring up the subject when we get back from break right away, when should i ask her if she wants a relationship again.
2006-12-25 09:17:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah she didnt really ask me if she wanted a relationship she said, "You dont want a relationship right?" then i responded by saying that i wouldnt miind one. When i said this she looked shocked because the other guys that she liked never wanted one, so then she said that she would think about it over break. Sorry about the mess up.
2006-12-25 10:09:43 · update #1
P.S... I was also going to tell you where to go to get real advice on issues like this from guys who know how to deal with women... you think you're going to get great advice from the chicks here, and dudes who have no clue??? I had a free place I was going to tell you where to go... But, you didn't get in touch?????
What I just read makes it even WORSE... "you don't want a relationship right???" she says...
You fell for that?????
Unfortunatelly we all have...
I took the info out that I had here including my e-mail, as I never heard from you...
You'll just continue going through life all messed up over women....
YOU ARE HOLDING ONTO "STRAWS" DUDE...
What you wnat to hear is when to ask her again, and you wnat people to tell you that she likes you, and try again...
Dude, I know how it is...
AND THE BLUNT TRUTH IS... YOU MESSED IT UP...
THE TRUTH HURTS EH?
Then you are going to mess it up even worse by continuing to chase her????
WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE...
I had nothing to gain by sending you free e-books that costed me money on how to deal with chicks, but unfortunatelly you probably thought I had something to gain, or wanted something out of it... JUST TRYING TO HELP...
But, can't help out dudes who don't want it...
Now, if you could go out tomorrow and meet 10 more women that were fabulous, and fun to be around... would you be hung up on this one chick???
Tried to help you dude...
I was in a baddd slump with chicks UNTIL I LEARNED HOW TO DEAL WITH THEM AND BE A CHALLENGE, and sometimes post questions here, just to see what lame answers people will give on a subject, but I know all about women and how they operate...
Do you want to go through this again, and again with women... like a broken record...
You'll never get out with the women of your dreams, until you know how to deal with their TESTS...
SHE TESTED YOU, AND YOU FAILED HER TEST...
Bet she ends up with guys that she doesn't understand, and guys that don't treat her so great, and guys who she wonders why they don't call, etc...... hey... OF COURSE...
SHE WANTS A CHALLENGE JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER CHICK...
UNTIL YOU ARE A CHALLENGE TO WOMEN, YOU WON'T BE GETTING OUT WITH ANY WOMAN THAT YOU WANT ANYTIME SOON....
Anyway, I'll leave the rest of my post here...
You'll probably pick the answer here that suits your needs, and makes you feel good inside... but all of the other answers I read here are wrong... This is the only right answer...
All The Best ANYWAY... I tried to help you...
"SOMETIMES THE BEST THING TO DO WITH A WOMAN IS JUST TO WALK" GO OUT AND MEET OTHER WOMEN...
I tried dude...
BEST ADVICE RIGHT HERE FROM A GUY WHO KNOWS THE "GAME"...
Whatever you do... don't listen to the advice you are getting here from women who say things like she wants a relationship with you, an dthat she wants you and is nervous, etc... SHE DOES NOT WANT YOU, AND IS STRINGING YOU ALONG...
You don't want to hear this, and the TRUTH HURTS, BUT I HAVE BEEN THERE... She does not want you now...
You have a one in a billion chance of getting out with getting out with her if you listen to the advice I will give you( There is a slim chance if you would have got in touch with me, and had me send you the e-books) A ONE IN A BILLION CHANCE( even though as far as I am concerned you blew it... You will see that I am right as time goes on, and you don't get with her, then you'll think, maybe I should have listened to that guy on the net)... don't listen to the other garbage I have been reading on here, and women always give the worst advice on telling guys what to do... and alot of men are just pure dumb when it comes to chicks...
funny none of them told you to send her FLOWERS.... EEECCCCHHHHH eeeech
Dude... you have a case of "ONE ITIS" with this chick...
Listen to me, and listen to what I have to say well...
Women do this all of the time to test you...
Before I knew any better about how to deal with womens tests, I FELL FOR THIS B.S PLOY ALL OF THE TIME...
I lost three chicks that I was going out with and having sex with, and all three were telling me they thought they loved me, or were falling in love... and I fell for it, and told them I felt the same way... (IT WAS OVER AFTER THAT,,, IN ALL CASES)
WHY???
Because it is a test...
She probably did like you, and was testing you to see if you were going to be a CHALLENGE...
And you fell for it... hook, line and sinker...
Funny she hasn't told you that she just wants to be friends now...
When you fall for this ploy, especially in the begining, you are doomed... I know u don't want to hear this...
BUT LISTEN UP...
If you haven't already blown it, I'd be surprised or shocked...
I have had women tell me this, as I was saying, and I fell for it, and I WAS HAVING SEX WITH THEM...
THEY WERE FALLING IN LOVE... not just liking me...
And I was stupid then, and said I thought I was falling in love as well...
GAME OVER...
In all cases it was, maybe we are moving too fast, and the fatal
LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS...
Chick logic is different than guy logic...
NUMBER ONE...
You don't have to ask a chick out...
If she is hanging with you, she likes you...
Just let things progress...
When they tell you they like you... switch the topic...
There is no need for you to wear your heart on your sleeve...
All women want a challenge...
If you are not a challenge, they don't want you...
Once they know they have you in the palm of your hand, you are toast...
As far as I am concerned, when she said "she had to think about it" Your chances were finished...
Dude, I know what you are going through, and I am telling you, though it may not make sense to you, the truth...
I didn't know any of this until I started studying seduction...
If you are interested...
Because I feel for ya...
And I have been there...
Don't be telling any women that you are looking for a relationship...
If they bring it up... just say you have to get to know someone before you would consider any of that...
If a woman says she likes you, etc...
Don't fall for it, and tell her the same things back...
I know it makes no sense, but on the other hand it does...
Why???
Women are hit on alot, and they have to weed out the "weak" guys... this is one way that they do it...
Also, don't go around telling them they are beautiful,etc...
Just trying to help ya out dude...
BEEN THERE
AND HAVE BEEN HURT BY WOMEN TOO MANY TIMES...
remember this...
YOU ARE THE PRIZE TO BE PURSUED...
not her...
YOU...
and
YOU NEVER GET REJECTED BY WOMEN...
YOU JUST SEE IF THEY ARE WORTH GETTING TO KNOW BETTER...
AND REMEMBER...
if a chick is spending time with you, etc...
SHE LIKES YOU...
You don't bring this stuff up ever...
ANYWAY...
Hope you take my advice... it will change your life...
(which you are not, as you never got in touch)
GET SOME SELF RESPECT, AND STOP CHASING THIS CHICK...
STOP TALKING TO HER ON AIM...
GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE...
MEET OTHER WOMEN...
GET OUT OF THE HOUSE, AND TALK TO OTHER WOMEN EVERYWHERE.... AND STOP TELLING THEM HOW YOU FEEL...
2006-12-25 09:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by Q&A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she gets nervous around you, this could be a problem. I'd wait until after break and just start up a friendly conversation with her someplace public to aliviate any uncomfortable feelings she may be having. If she doesn't bring the subject of dating up, give her some space. Let her know truely that she is safe around you first, then see about a relationship.
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2016-10-18 23:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, she wants a relationship. shes the one who first brought it up in the beginning. she gets nervous around you because she likes you and she really wants you to like her back and shes afraid she wont make a good impression. you should bring it up and talk honestly with her about it...its not that hard. also, think about if whether or not this is what YOU want. because if you decide that you dont want a relationship with her then it ends right there and you need to tell her so. if you decide you do want one, then by all means, the coast is clear and you should definetely ask her out!!!
2006-12-25 09:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry and dont rush. If you rush everything will fall apart. She said she will think over teh break , then let her have the break to think about it. Realationship should not be rushed. Just wait it out, when you talk to her aim, dont bring out that subject unless she does, just keep it kool and wait. If she likes you , then she will go out with you after the break. so all you need to do now is wait. I dont belveie you will need to ask her out again... so man just chill realaxs and enjoy llife....
2006-12-25 09:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking to her on AIM. Be friendly and everything. When you get back from break think of a nice way to ask her.
2006-12-25 09:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by marisa_g1rl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be better if you guys stayed friends for a bit longer. Get to know her a lot better, and ask her then. i had a relationship with a guy i barely knew....it didnt work out, but now we're the best of friends, and he tells me we should try again :) so, if you knew her a lot better, the relationship would last longer.
2006-12-25 09:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by Just another Stalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe don't ask her at all, just hang out with her and let things proceed naturally. If she wants a relationship, it will probably become obvious. Just let things occur naturally, don't push or rush things, just get to know her.
2006-12-25 09:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by Libby p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't wait too long to ask her out, try to see when you get another chance and let her know how you feel about her right their and then.
2006-12-25 09:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by Ayato Kamina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets see ask her face to face its the best way to talk
and ask her when you feel the time is right im sure she will be just as anxious as you are for a relantionship
2006-12-25 09:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by *meggie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you will know the right time when it comes
2006-12-25 09:22:58 · answer #11 · answered by hhhhhhhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋