So I know thig guy called Ben. He really Likes Me and I really like him. The thing is I've seen him Twice. I have his no. But everytime I ask If he wants to hang out he seems to aviod me. I asked last week he said he was doing a sponsor thing for skateboarding but then I heard he went camping instead ... Ok. This week he's going round his friends house... which i can understand. But other times It seemed like he was avoiding me maybe because he's scared or nervous. He's really nice and sweet but it seems like he doesn't want to see me. I did text him to wish him a merry xmas . And said sorry if i was being to pushy by asking if you wanted to hang out so much. And I also asked if he was avoiding me ...
I really want to get to know him.
Please Help.
Thanks.
2006-12-25 09:11:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a guy is avoiding you that means [and talking from experience] that he likes you and sometime he will definetely ask you out. Maybe he's avoiding you because he's a bit shy, but he probably likes you a lot! so that's why you should have a nice and easy talk with him just to get to know him more and then maybe ask him to meet so you guys could get to know eachother more. but anywayz, i hope this help... you go girl!
2006-12-25 09:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Liusy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beg the guy... sheesh, if he wanted to hang out w/ you he would. Maybe he's in a relationship or there's something he doesn't want you to know about him. Either way, you two are just starting & if he's being weird already you're better off not making youself seem desprate, let him be the one to call. Good luck...
2006-12-25 09:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mishee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him. If he cares, he'd come running back. It's called playing hard to get. Some boys don't like it if you act 'pushy' or 'desperate' (not that you are), but if you're not giving him the attention, he may want you more, and actually talk to you. Don't text him, don't call him. Wait for him to do it.
2006-12-25 13:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where on earth did you get the idea he really likes you? Sounds like he is trying to be nice and wants to avoid you. Take the hint, leave him alone, you are only making matters worse, you look desperate.
2006-12-25 16:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he prolly likes u or is just flirtin with u. dont keep texin or tryna talk 2 him or call him because he'll get pissed off and maybe even put off. just leave him be, he mightve just come out of a relationship or already has someone but is too afraid to tell you because he doesnt want to hurt u. he knows u like him and if he likes you then give it time and he'll make the move.
good luck.
2006-12-25 09:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about if you were to ask him about hanging out, make it more open instead of a specific date, like he can let you know when he is free and you can hang out then.
If he doesn't get back to you then he's not worth it.
2006-12-25 09:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by forgotful_guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's the kind of guy who just doesn't know how to say no to a girl. Explain to him that you really like him, and that you really want to get to know him. If he turns you away again, then he's just not worth it. Good luck!!
2006-12-25 09:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by Linn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident he will think of which you're no longer attracted to him anymore. So i could get yet another instruct or invite the guy over once you pick for help on baseball so which you adult men can all pass to the park or something. It replaced into Kindof dumb yet you could actually substitute it! good success :-)
2016-10-06 00:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by mauzon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with it love, lifes too short for playing games, if you want him, go get him. don't take any **** - and if he's not interested - move on. Stop fannying around and do what it takes or forget it. I can't believe people ask these questions - you know what you want to do, stop being a wimp!!!!
2006-12-25 09:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by sharon r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when hes not hanging around you,, hes backing away,, just let him make the move now and see, you might be pushing a little ,, slow down OK .
2006-12-25 09:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋