Well it took me forevor to get the guy and i kinda wanted to keep him around. But now hes had sex with one of my good friends. What do i do?
2006-12-25 09:01:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him and your friend! It's obvious that they both don't care about your feelings. Find a guy and a girl who appriciates you and wouldn't do anything to hurt you. I understand it will be hard to move on, but it is for the best. It's better for it to happen now that to stay with him for longer and let it happen again. Too risky. You don't need people like them in your life. A person who loves you, even as a freind, wouldn't hurt you.
2006-12-25 09:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The question is why did he cheat Not whether you should dump him you can forgive him and life will go on! Now find out why he cheated , if it was just something that happened and most likely will never happen again. Or was you good friend pissed at you! Ask him what the h e l l is going on! If you don't like his answer then and only then move on!
2006-12-25 10:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one you have wonderful friends seems like. I would kick the guy to the curb, Because if he cheats on you and gets away with it what makes you think he won't do it again. It is a known fact that once a guy cheats and get away with it he will keep on doing it. ALso you need better friends, because she knew you were going with him and she still did it. Or was it an accident, she was walking by him and at the same time they both tripped and their clothes came off and landed on each other. WOW wish I coudl do that. SO get rid of him and your friend you deserve better.
2006-12-25 09:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say you should dump him like the garbage he is... and tell your friend that if she wants to hang ot with you ever again that she is to stay away from anyone you even kind of like. Oh and if the guy comes crawling back say stuff like "you hurt me really bad" and stuff like that. the same thing happened with me and one of my friends but it wasn't sex ( I am in middle school)
2006-12-25 09:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by monkey8kenna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Staying with him out of fear of being lonely is the worst thing you can do to your self esteem. Dump him, and dump that friend of yours.
2006-12-25 09:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your good friends?? He's not worth all the heart ache at all.A man who would sleep with your friend,is only out to hurt you.And a friend who would do something like this is no friend. She doesn't deserve your friendship.But learn to always forgive and forget.But forgiving someone doesn't mean that you still have to be friends with them.
2006-12-25 09:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just your boyfriend...dump him! If he was your husband, and you'd been together for 40 years, then maybe I would say try and work it out. But, why would you want to date a cheater? He'll just do it again.
2006-12-25 09:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by skichamonix515 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, noooooooooooooo, whats wrong with all you peoples. goddd... well I think You should speak it over, and try to work it out,
find out why he cheated on u? maybe he is unhappy with you,
how did you find out in the first place? did he admit ?
did he regret what he did? see how he feels about it,
Well one thing is for sure, if he is cold about it nor does he feel guilty about it, im sorry but I would dump them, Good luck
2006-12-25 09:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by jewishguy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends whether he told you or if you caught him (someone else had to tell you). If he was the one that told you , it means he is sorry for what he did and could not live with it (give him another chance). If you caught him then he was hoping never to get caught and was going to continue cheating...for that you have to let him go.
2006-12-25 09:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him
2006-12-25 09:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by Sheepish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋