i know he loves me very much but i just can't let what he did go. i miss him sooo much and i don't know what to do. Someone please help me!!!!
2006-12-25 08:55:37 · 28 answers · asked by rxmikoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks guys,the advice really helped. now i'm sure i made the right choice :)
2006-12-26 19:09:15 · update #1
Let him go if he cheated on you once he'll do it again.
2006-12-25 08:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by JoJo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be the one to decide if you are willing to forgive him for what he did to you. If you are not willing to do that, then you really need to let him go. If you take him back then you may still constantly think about him and the other chick
Keep in mind as well, that there is a possibility that you will never be able to trust him again. It might be best if you take some time away from him to find out if you are willing to start over with a cheater.
You deserve better than the treatment he's been giving you. It is a fact that he doesn't deserve anything extra from you. Give him only what YOU are willing to give.
2006-12-25 17:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved you and wanted to remain true to you and didn't want to hurt you, he wouldn't have cheated. I would just ask him why he did that, and if he doesn't really love you, then just say so. And about missing him, flirt with other guys. It will totally take your mind off of him. You may still miss him, but always remember that there are always plenty of other fish in the sea. Dont' be afraid to try someone new!!!!
2006-12-25 17:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Linn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see, if you take him back, that wold mean that you accept the fact that he can get away with things from you because you took him back in the first place. I know you miss him, but does he miss you? I doubt it if he cheated on you in the first place.
I would tell him to go to Hell and to kiss your a-s-s and move on. I know what I would do if I was you, and I just said it, too. So, you can used-again-by this person if you want to, but, you will be the only one who would be laughed at. Trust me, he would be laughing right behind you. He may do this again and see if you are gullible-or dumb-enough to take him back for the second time.
Move on.
2006-12-25 17:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was in your situation last year. girl it's going to be 2007 in a couple days, i think that you should leave your trashes in 2006, with the rest of trashes. it may seems hard now but believe me in time you will get over it, and than balsam into a beautiful flowers, and you will find love again. anything is possible when you believe, i have been there. it only makes you stronger in the end. dont let him walk all over you, you are strong, you just have to believe it, and cry a few tears. but nothing ever last forever. you can do it leave him. he will never stop because he thinks that you are weak. WALK AWAY. DONT ANSWER HIS PHONE CALLS. repeat after me I AM STRONG over and over again. THAN WALK AWAY
2006-12-25 17:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by felicia j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart the only person who can answer that question is u. Me myself I have been there and I keep my man and all he did was to continue to cheat on me with other women over and over and over again until I said u know what forget u and me I am not going to let u miss treat me like I don't matter. Like my girl Tina Tuner said "What's Love got to do with it" I'll tell u N-O-T-H-I-N-G
2006-12-25 17:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by pdse52 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happend 2 me i suggest givin him another chance because he might change even tho ppl say once a cheater alwayz a cheater well that isnt true with all guyz he deserves a chance to prove himself but i do suggest if u stay with him you check is stuff e-mails phone calls where hes at i no that it seems wrong to do but then you will no for sure if hes cheating again well i hope i helped
~!~Kayla~!~
2006-12-25 17:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by i am so much in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could stay together and cheat on him that way it would be fair! I would just dump him and get over it there are always others out there.
2006-12-25 16:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by mom363546 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would break up,,,, and no he doesnt have a mature love for you, otherwise he would not of cheated, there is no excuse for it! sorry to be blunt, but he doesnt love you enough to respect you, nor enough to not take a chance of contacting a disease and bringing it to you,,, nor enough to not chance getting someone pregnant, what kind of love exactly does he have for you?
2006-12-25 17:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your boyfriend so you really don't have a real commitment yet.But yea,if my fiance cheated on me then,he would be out.
2006-12-25 16:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋