Okay I have this majorly mean older brother. He had no respect for me and whenever I touch something that is his he gets soooooo mad at me, but he always comes into my room and messes everything. up. He also teases a whole lot and calls me fat (i am not really fat me brother is just a bird brain) and i try to ignore it but that is really hard. I even try getting back at him but he always has a back up plan to make me soo mad. I hits me a lot, too. I have had a lot of dead arms. that means that u feel like u can't move your arm. what should i do? i really need some reasonably advice. he is way too strong for me. If I get one one of his nerves he hurts me. My parents don't listen to me when i tell them.
2006-12-25 08:32:36 · 8 answers · asked by tz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i think ignoring is the best idea , and always smile when he is calling u fat , try to ignore what he is doing with ur room .. he is just want to have some attention .. so treat him as no one there .. just u and ir rest of ur family .. dont giving up early .. be strong girl .. he will respect u with the time .. coze ur respecting ur self before respecting him .. also ur family will respect u for the way that ur handling ur problems with ur brother ... he is seems like me a sick brother ... u should tret him as sick man need some attention and help .. and good luck dear .. my heart with u
2006-12-25 08:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Rose Bridge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try ignoring your brother when possible. Don't even speak to him or reply when he insults you. Walk away from him and make it a point to find other things to fill your time. Let him see that you realize how much of a jerk he is and you REFUSE to associate with people like him. Blood or not, you deserve respect.
2006-12-25 16:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you need some counseling help. I suggest bringing him to the school counselor. And you should also write him a letter and show him how you feel, not tell him. Because if you tell him the chances of him getting mad at you for butting is very likely. Don't be to aggresive in the letter either. Be nice, gentle, and caring. PS: Don't touch his stuff~!~!~!~!
2006-12-25 16:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Boy, You're My Lucky Star<3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK, FIRST OF ALL, NEVER LET A GUY, ESPECIALLY YOUR BROTHER TREAT YOU THAT WAY!!!!! WOMEN DESERVE MORE RESPECT THAN THAT!!!!! ABOUT YOUR PARENTS, PUT A HIDDEN CAMERA IN A ROOM TO PROVE HOW HE IS. SEE IF THAT WORKS. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-12-25 17:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Linn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about another adult that you can trust? if your parnets dont lisent then you need to make it more clear to them on how you feel, or get the school bully to kick your brohers ***
2006-12-25 16:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by xryztal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hope he grows up soon
2007-01-02 10:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by sharlene j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world of sibling rivalry.
It won't last long.
2006-12-25 16:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him!
2006-12-25 16:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by pvw0909 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋