My ex dumped me for a younger girl (I'm 32 , he's 31 and she's 20)... so now I am having 'age' issues. Everyone I know tells me I'm crazy. I'm fit, healthy, look like I'm 25 and take really good care of myself... but he's made me feel like a worthless old woman. What is my problem? Do other women feel like this, too? Please give me some tips to get over this? thanks...
2006-12-25 08:32:15 · 8 answers · asked by lola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh.. and she dumped him a week later! heehee
2006-12-25 08:32:41 · update #1
you are okay.He has not even a single clue,about what he want in life.Thank God,you are out of this immature man.God will send you a new man,who will love you indeed.Do not worry about this bad time in your life,be strong,be happy,and move on in your life.Happy merry Christmas and happy new year 2007.When we have tough times,we need to be tougher and strong.God bless you every day in your present and future life.Good luck.
2006-12-25 08:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, that she has dumped him are you going to take him back?.
Do you really think he is Worth it after the way he treated you for her. If I still loved him it be a long time before I would consider taking him back because he'll be on the lookout for another young thing. I always told my ex husband women get older and men get younger so you think. I am like you I always kept my self up and dressed real well and was told that I looked 10 or younger than I, but not him. He would run me down no matter what I did
wanted me to never wear jewelery, mascara, or have my ear pierced or any color in my hair, only light makeup. If I dressed my age should I was dressing to young trying to act like a 16 yr old. When I got divorced I wore what I wanted, mascara, ear pierced, Sunkist my hair and dressed like everyone else my age.
I may not looked better but I sure felt better. It didn't take very long for me to find what I was looking for a wealthy man with all the fantastic benefits. I didn't know what a good lover was but I was sure loving what I found the greatest lover on earth with all the fringe benefits, just gives you the Heebie Jeebies, WHEW
2006-12-25 16:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! That hurts.
Maybe he was feeling some age issues too (and not quite ready to grow up.) Having sad feelings is a part of the break-up cycle, you just have to bear with them. You seem to have great self-esteem, a wonderful quality for women today. Try to pamper yourself, get in touch with some friends you may have not seen in a while and go out. Distracting yourself can really help you get through this tough time.
And by the way, you do not have a problem, I think we all wonder what the fault is in ourselves when things don't work out the way we want them to.
2006-12-25 16:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by Miss M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you are not crazy and you are reacting normal. Men in general, do not like a woman hitting the wall, they like a young hottie any day. My suggestion, is to move on on do him a favor, start plowing 19-yrs old boys, they last longer than no others.
2006-12-25 16:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. im 32 also and if my hubby dumped me for a younger girl, i know me, id feel the same way.
we dont wanna be dumped for some younger bimbo! not after we gave them the best years of our lives dammit!!
2006-12-25 16:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like he has some issues; you r the victim and need to move on with your life; put on some red high heels and shake your booty, go and do something you want to do.
2006-12-25 16:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by putnam127 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your ex is the one with problems, On the other hand you sound HOT!!!, just what me and around 30,000,000 other men are looking for. e-mail me!
2006-12-25 16:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by chosen37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you didnt marry the bozo then have him cheat on you then divorce you.
2006-12-25 16:35:12 · answer #8 · answered by petasucks101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋