I think i just cheated on my bf!!!!!
It wasnot planned but I was with this guy and he just kissed me and then I contiuned to kiss him then after a while my bf sent me a msg saying "where are You I love you"
I mean what the fck is wrong with me?I feel so stupid i mean i would never want the same treatment now both of them love me!!
I really love my bf but he lives not as close to me as the other guy..so I see the other guy more often but he going to prison 4 three and half months cause he punshed and broke a guys nose but now hes changed he's more calm etc.. but I just dont know which 1 to break up with i feel in love with both help!!!
and the second guy gave me hug and his penis was in erection so he steped bk(myb so i couldnt feel it) he clams to be a bit shy and her said he's nerveus but hes really cute and sweet what to do?? thanks
2006-12-25 08:10:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL.
I am not disappointed that you cheated on your boyfriend.
I am more disappointed that you cheated on your boyfriend over a guy who is about to become someone's jail b%tch.
If you stop using your heart and pay attention to the good sense God gave you, will you do the following:
1) Don't tell your boyfriend you cheated. You screwed up and NOW you are in damage control mode. The last thing you need to do is further complicate things by getting pious!
2) Ditch Mr. Jail ***** ==> you need to be with someone who has the ability to AVOID jail sentences to have any chance for a real relationship.
3) Cease and desist all communications with Mr. Jail ***** which includes your NOT visiting him while he is incarcerated.
4) Give mind-numbing sex to your current boyfriend -- just because!
2006-12-25 08:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight, you are deciding between a convicted violent criminal and a lovely sweet, but not quite so sexy guy. Who would you rather live with for the next 50 years? Who would be the best husband and father to your children? How would you feel if dear boyfriend hammered your babies?
Your BF may love you, but he is not a great prospect, unless your future plans involve domestic violence, and don't be so naive as to think he wouldn't hit his wife. A violent man will be violent to everyone around him. The other guy sounds sweet and harmless and thoughtful, go with the good one.
2006-12-25 16:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by Greth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You use the term "love" too loosely. Your bf loves you, you really love your bf, you love both of them. There is no love going on there, at least not where you're involved. I never heard you say that the other boy who's going to prison loves you. But I did hear you say that your bf said he loves you. I think that penis incident has gone to your head. You said that you didn't know which one to break up with, but you never said that you were going out with the jailbird. But you did say "I was with this guy." Define "with?" There was obviously some sort of attraction going on between you two that put you "with" this the jailbird to begin with, in which case you were being unfaithful to your boyfriend by being alone with the jailbird. Therefore you got yourself into your own mess, now get yourself out!
2006-12-25 16:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Deke O'Malley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you just gave a very big example to all those pusssies that want to be in "love" and have a "girlfriend". Cupcakes, go ahead and nail this guy, you loser boyfriend will never find out. If this guy makes you happy physically, then go ahead. Just make sure if it goes more serious, then you better make sure you tell your loser boyfriend that you found someone. This is why people should play the fields before settling down with someone, this is why people get hurt.
2006-12-25 16:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow looks like you got alot on your hands well on goning to jail what kind of life is that gonig to be for you! his not going to be there for you when you need him and is not going to love you the way you need hom to cuz hes going to be away no the other one sounds like a prev. but if hes good to you then go for it i guess with your boy it all depends with how long yall been together and how much you love him! HOPE I HELP A LITTLE!
2006-12-25 16:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by *cowgurl up* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! your a btch!!!!!!!! and the girl above me is so right, GROW UP, 13 was a long time ago!!!!!! This guy knew what he was doing and so did you. People don't just make a decision from one moment to another that they don't want to. You knew what this guy was all about, and you think he's nice, you knew EXACTLY what you were getting into!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thats all i have to say.
2006-12-25 16:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is tough. Well I guess you can't have Christmas without a fruitcake. So here is my answer Nitz. It involves a razorblade, a bathroom, a CD player and anything by N'Sync. Have fun and Merry Christmas.
2006-12-25 16:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by mumra_06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you think you just cheated? of course you just cheated!! and now you dont know who to pick? hmm. lets see. you could pick the b/f you have now who obviously loves you or you could pick the guy whos going to PRISON for 31/2 months for breaking someones nose!!
c'mon girl! think. what do you think you should do?????
2006-12-25 16:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you definitley need to cut off guy #2 because he's a distraction from your boyfriend.... your leading both of them on.... you need to be upfront with guy #2, tell him you have a boyfriend and then run because he DID break some guys nose... lol
2006-12-25 16:17:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an "idiot and a s l u t"! The jailbird sounds like more your speed. I'm sure he will treat you real nice when he gets out!!
2006-12-25 16:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋