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too much going on in her life
and i was like yeah i understand, after that conversation we stopped
talking and haning out... than like four months later i kind ran into her
and we talked about random things... and than later that same day i got
a text it was her texing me her new number she was like yeah here is my
number i forgot to give it to you, after that i would get texes from
her every few days and than we kinda started hanging out again but we
dont really mess around we just kinda sometimes flirt over texes... but i
cant tell if she likes me just as a friend or more than that?? please
help i need to know because i like her alot and i dont know how to tell
her. please read my first quastion to get the whole thing thanks your answers are much apriciated

2006-12-25 08:10:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

3 answers

Do an autopsy on your past relationships. Why didn't they work? Look at things honestly and learn from your mistakes.


Acknowledge what you own in a relationship. If you look at relationships that haven't worked, the common denominator is you! That means you own part of the problem. You create your own experience and control the choices you make. Your behavior and decisions have consequences. Take responsibility for them.


Be your authentic self. Your authentic self is who you are when you have no fear of judgment, or before the world starts pushing you around and telling you who you're supposed to be. Your fictional self is who you are when you have a social mask on to please everyone else — and it doesn't work if you're looking for a lasting relationship.

Making Family Resolutions
In this day and age, it's easy to get overscheduled, stressed out and disorganized. Make this year the year you make your family a priority — to spend more time together, live in less chaos or even just have more fun.


Take inventory and prioritize.
If you want to turn chaos into harmony and rhythm in your household, you have to be willing to challenge everything. Nothing is sacred. You may have to change your lifestyle, rearrange your schedule or drop some of your commitments in order to fully benefit your family. Are your children involved in too many activities? Are you so busy you never have time alone with your spouse? Ask yourself what's really important to you and your family.



Recognize what you're doing to contribute to the problem.
You may be very loving and well-intended, but you could be making critical mistakes. Are you a control freak? Never say no even when you're overscheduled? Have no time to sit and enjoy your children? Think about what changes could start with you.



Learn to delegate.
Oftentimes, mothers take it all on themselves when their children are old enough to lend a helping hand. You can't do everything. It's admirable, but not realistic. Divide up the labor and responsibilities so you're not so worn out all the time. Give your kids specific tasks that they can each be responsible for. Your kids will appreciate it. It'll make them feel helpful and you'll have more to give them in return.



Eat meals together.
Spending time together is vital. If everyone has a different schedule and you don't even gather together for a family meal, you are missing an important part of a cohesive family. Make a commitment to sit down for a family meal every evening. Everyone needs to get around the dinner table and talk about the day. Turn the TV off, take the phone off the hook and turn the chaos down. You can enjoy this time together, laughing and talking.

2006-12-25 08:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by mumra_06 2 · 0 0

she likes u as a fiend but u should ask her if she likes u. good luck, marry christmas and have a happy holidays

2006-12-25 16:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Joho 7 · 0 0

what was your first question again.

2006-12-25 16:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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