my boy friend has been cheating on me, i found out recently. he doesnt know that i know. now i want him to pay...more than hurt i feel angry by his behaviour. pls suggest something.
2006-12-25 07:58:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Revenge is not my cup of tea. Instead do what is in your best interest. That means anything you do with regards to ending this relationship you do to benefit you and you take the high road and do not to cause harm to anyone. Read the signs you've been given this relationship was not for you. Someone is out there that is waiting to cross paths with you that will treasure you. So keep your karma in a good place and do not even bother clouding your mind and polluting your heart. Move on.
2006-12-25 08:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by prayingangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well three ways.
1. Cheat on him with some one he was previously jealous of and do it when you know he'll see some how.
2. Do something really special for him and make him fall in love you all over again then leave him, (but you have to be carefull b/c you can fall back in love too.).
3. Don't do anything. Confront him and leave him. Don't give him time at all to "explain". Just leave him. That will show him that you are better and make him feel sad and stupid cause he won't think that you care.
2006-12-25 16:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By leaving him alone, moving on with your life and being the best you can be. That is the best revenge. Don't waste your precious time and energy on being hateful. Anger in this case would be a wasted emotion and a waste of a great deal of energy. Know you are better than that and you deserve better. Good luck to you and God bless****
2006-12-25 16:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doing some of the actions answered here will only hurt you!
Resentment shuts YOU off from the sunlight of The Spirit!!!
Pray/ or meditate for good things to happen to him....hard at first but you will find gr8 things will come your way. Dealing with this negatively will only bring more heart ache.
2006-12-25 16:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by The Saint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you stooping to his level? In the long run you are not going to feel any better taking revenge on him. You may regret lowering yourself to his disgusting level. Tell him what you know and move on to someone that treats you like a lady!
2006-12-25 16:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him. Dont cheat on him, cause then you are just same dirt as him. Confront him and make him see, you dont even care. Try to move on and find someone, who will deserve you and thats what will hurt him the most, if he cares about you.
2006-12-25 16:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by Eli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a brochure from a cosmetic clinic specializing in male penis enlargement.
Tuck the brochure inside a get-well card. And don't forget to wish him all the best.
2006-12-25 16:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by Panama Jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, if you want to maximize pain in this bloke, you have two nasty options. One, is to go and find a large endowed black man and get plowed by him. Describe to your ex that it "hurt" and you could not "handle" such man.
Option two, is to nail one of his good buddies. Tell him that he "lasted" longer and "knew" where to put and "how" to do it.
Cupcakes, just watch his reaction when you tell him what a "bad" girl you had been.
2006-12-25 16:06:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Key his car......carve your name, better yet, carve her name into the seats, take a baseball bat to the head lights and slash all four tires..........
Then if you could manage to make out with his brother or one of his best friends that should do it!
2006-12-25 16:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You be the sophisticated adult,,,if you are over 18. You must know that "Vengeance will seek its own"
I am sorry for your hurt,,,,,some one much better is out there for you.
2006-12-25 16:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋