My boyfriend of two years now, told me to check him emails because hes traveling... He told me his password was "princess" and i asked him why and he told me its always been that way.. i was curious so i checked his secret question (the one u use in case u forget your password) and it said "gabby's T-shirt?" (shes his ex).. i got so sad, why would he keep a password that reminds him to his ex every day? should i tell him something? why wouldnt he change it? does this mean he thinks of her every time he logs in?
2006-12-25 06:26:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's just too lazy to change his password... It's always been that way, why change it? It's just a password... Relax, he trusts you enough to give you his password and access to his email account, which also means he has little or nothing to hide from you...
I don't have anything to hide from my girlfriend... But I would never give her my password.
2006-12-25 06:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I call the coworker at work that annoys me, "princess". It's not a nickname of endearment, but of mockery. I see her as this person who thinks that she's better than everyone else like she's some kind of "princess". Your boyfriend may be the same way. He just remembers that particular t-shirt that his ex has because of it.
Or, he just created the email account when he was with her and has not bothered to change the password. No one likes changing their password. To him, the password does not have an emotional attachment, it's just a password.
But, either way, he's trusting you with his email which shows that he loves you. I would really have to love someone to let them check my email.
2006-12-25 14:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even to me, changing a password because one has a different boy/girlfriend is weird. I wouldn't do it for that reason. It's a PASSWORD not a marriage proposal to the ex. He didn't change his undies style after they broke up, he didn't change his toothbrush, he didn't decide he no longer likes cheeseburgers because they used to eat them together sometimes so why should he change his password? Here's the thing.....he trusted you to be wearing your big girl panties when he asked you to keep on his email. Had he known you'd freak about a silly password, he'd never have entrusted you with it and the email and he'd seriously be considering your maturity level to be hung up on a password as a symbol you use to determine whether or not he cares about you. I mean.....talk about requiring perfectionism in a mate! It's wrong for you to interpret this as a sign of whether or not he loves you, just flat out wrong. And you have betrayed HIS trust in YOU by getting all bent about something like this, by assuming that it means something it clearly doesn't. How bad he would feel, and angry too, if his trust in you led you to something you "just didn't like" and then led you to snoop further into his secret question to mis-confirm your fear. Let me make this clear. She is nothing but a secret question and a password to him at this point. You're the girlfriend. I'm sure you can bring it up and tick him off about it though and maybe in one of his logins on other sites you, too, can be relegated to being nothing more than a password and secret question. I'm sorry if this is harsh but I don't understand why anyone would go LOOKING for a way to create drama. Did he say how he feels about you? Ever in two years? It's my experience that men say what they mean and mean what they say, with little to no subterfuge. You either trust him or your don't. But to base that trust on a password and secret question that was none of your business.......man.
2006-12-25 14:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by badasslilnici 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's use to it. Guys don't change what works. It's a hassle to remember a different password. Girls look way to much into stupid little things. Trust me, I am one. Stop being a jealous prick and love your man. While you still have him. If your like this all the time, I could see him dumping you a few years down the road...
2006-12-25 14:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had the same password for years. He just doesn't want to change it. Yes, you are being crazy jealous! If he trusts you enough to give you that password, thats pretty strong...
2006-12-25 14:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a tee shirt printed up that says: I'm a great E-Mail password. Model it wet before him without a bra. He'll get the message.
2006-12-25 14:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by walter_b_marvin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont you think he may do it in purpose to know your reaction? why he didnt ask another person to check his emails. If his intention was not to see your reaction those kind of passwords and hints are normal nothing to worry about.
2006-12-25 19:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by frankomty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as for me I would be very suspicious ,can see know reason for not changing it doesnt take that long wonder why he didnt tell you he knew you would find out princess is a very lady like password is there any possibility he was trying to make you jealous ask him
2006-12-25 14:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably just doesn't want to take the time to change it. Ask him about it though and find out if he still thinks about his ex.
2006-12-25 14:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by Smith10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just never got around to changing it. I'm sure he doesn't think about it at all as a connection to her. You can ask him to change it so it reminds him of you but I wouldn't get stupid w/ it.
2006-12-25 14:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋