2006-12-25 05:54:46 · 13 answers · asked by <3*tinkerbell<3* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Playing hard may lead guys to believe in many cases that the girl might not be interested. Some people have more patience than others. My personal take on that, is if a girl is playing too hard to get, which means that she won't really care to lose you. Why should a guy always try 100%. It should be guy:girl atleast 60:40.
Sometimes when a girl tries too hard to get, the guy might feel, that he might be stalking the girl. So how to really know, no means no or is she trying hard to get.
It's 21st century. Women should feel free to ask a guy out , just like guys do. There is nothin' wrong in showing a guy preemptively that you like him. I've been knocked off my feet several times, when women just take initiative and surprise me.
2006-12-25 05:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by thewiseone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell Yes! Unless there chumps who have a hard time pulling girls as it is, then they get annoyed and walk away =)
I have a harem, but theres two girls that I actually love both as a best friend and as a lover, and they took every ounce of my game to get - so theres a live example.
Guys who dont have Game wont like it, but me ... I get bored of toungeing down girls within a few hours of knowing them, so if I get a challenge I love it.
Play hard to get, but make sure you do it the right way. Push away, then Pull closer twice. Push, then Pull twice =) Remember "Hope + Doubt = Passion"
-Plethora
2006-12-25 14:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Plethora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THis is coming from a guy,
AH, Hell no, I hate thier games of figuring out wehter or not you actually like them or not, In the meantime wondering if you are giving them unwanted attention,
I hate playing those games
2006-12-25 14:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not the first time we meet, that just gets irritating. I'd rather have a more laid back relationship, but I kinda like shy girls alot more than the over confident ones.
2006-12-25 13:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah sumtimes,but sum guys are losers where dey want da guh 2 fall 4 him dat quick.da coo guys wit personality like a challenge
2006-12-25 13:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by Redd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,and I don't like girls that are easy either. I rather have a girl that is herself,otherwise I would find someone else.
2006-12-25 13:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not mature guys anyway. Lay it on the line, say how you feel and you can both move forward.
2006-12-25 13:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by Frank Rizzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! Men dont like to play games. They just participate in it because they have to.
2006-12-25 13:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much...if you really feel for someone, the game playing should end....otherwise its not serious at all....personally, i'll drop the relationship & move forward if i feel its more game playing and less intimate....
2006-12-25 14:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it makes life quite simple for me. I go elsewhere.
2006-12-25 13:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋