everytime my boyfriend is drunk he gets very angy wth me for no reason at all. what should i do? i have spoken to him about it and the is no difference.
2006-12-25 05:50:22 · 17 answers · asked by paulette h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you see your man drunk, IGNORE him and all related commentary.
2006-12-25 05:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He's what is called an "angry drunk". Some folks get sad, some happy, and your happens to get angry. There IS a reason for his anger but it will take a lot of work to figure out what it is. If this is a regular occurrence, not only is he an angry drunk, he's also an alcoholic. You can't fix it, it isn't your fault, and you are in for a ton of misery if he remains in your life and does not change.
2006-12-25 13:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they can get away with it, they know all the buttons to press. Drinking is not a good recipe for a stable relationship. If he is young then it sounds like he is developing a drink problem which is not ulike a disease, i.e. if left untreated will get worse and worse with age and as his tolerance to alcohol changes then he will start to drink more or switch to stronger stuff like spirits. He's only a boyfriend, get a new one there are plenty out there who don't drink so it becomes a problem. You are not bound to stay with him, tell him you are not prepared to tolerate it and if he loves you then he will try to stop, but sounds like you have done that already and basically he prefers his booze.
2006-12-25 14:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by georgeygirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is because he is drunk. You may want to help him stop getting drunk in order to help you stop being angry at you for no reason!
2006-12-25 14:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by Stavi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THis is coming from a guy,
Alcohol only amplifies a persons true feelings often to a point where they will come out and say exactly what is on their mind,
In this instance i would be finding out how he REALLY feels about you, He's either pissed that your in his life or he is just not handling alcohol well at all.
2006-12-25 13:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by the d 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Its probably the real him when drunk,acting without thinking about actions first.
2006-12-25 14:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by stud200_uk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if anybody gets angry every time they are drunk then that should be enough of a warning for them not to touch it,
2006-12-29 09:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by MAD FEMALE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes good answer from carpet muncher,Why don´t you bye him a punch bag in the sale´s , like that he can take all his anger out on that rather than upsetting you all time, or just refuse to go any where with him if he´s going to drink and get drunk all time, Merry Christmas
2006-12-25 14:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It a sign that he wants to be the boss, Best thing for a woman to do is find someone else.
2006-12-25 14:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by kayef57 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be because when he is drunk his mind isn't in its proper state, and he may get openly mad about something he is mad about when he isn't drunk, but doesn't want to tell you.
2006-12-25 13:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called Stella Artois.
2006-12-25 13:55:01 · answer #11 · answered by Dazman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋