Im never scared when i talk to her in class in front of everyone,but i really dont know if she'll accept.I know it's a little bit early to dateand its a now when i have to concentrate on my studies,but im really doing good in my studies,me and her finish in the top 5 all the time. So could you help me ask her out???
Could you also mention when is the correct time,and where is the best place to go out(like a movie) etc etc..
All answers will be most appreciated!THANK YOU!!
2006-12-25 05:43:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s----i also have a problem with my parents,dont know if they'll let me go out
2006-12-25 06:25:43 · update #1
Well, buddy, take it from me, every girl and every situation is different. However, you are not without hope. Because you are so young and unsure, what you have to do is work on your self-esteem first. It's not the end of the world if she says no. But, I know most of us feel like it is. My advice to you is keep it casual. In a situation like this, (you said that you feel comfortable talking to her in public), you want to gain her trust. Believe me, the more comfortable she feels around you, the easier it'll be. I suggest a social gathering with a group of friends. Could be anything. All going out to a restaurant. I wouldn't so much suggest the movies simply because it leaves too much room to screw things up. You can't really have a conversation or get to know each other. Parties are great. Grab a couple buddies you trust. People who think you're great and you have good times with. Think of an event you can all do together. Go-Kart racing, ask your parents if you can have a pizza party at your house. The key is to set something up where you'd have an excuse to ask her out without sounding too formal and that she'll have a lot of fun in. Don't think of it as a date just yet. When you go out. Be casual. Joke around with your friends but include her in the conversation. Tell funny stories. The more you make her laugh, the better your chances. At some point in the night, see if you can catch her alone. Maybe near the end before she goes home. Ask her if she had a good time. If she says she did, tell her you're glad. Look at her in the eyes and tell her that you've been wanting to hang out with her outside of school and ask her if she'd like to do something again, sometime. That would open the door up for you by letting her know you've noticed her without sounding too forward. Trust me, if she had a good time, she'll say yes. And she'll be looking at you a lot differently in school. The thing is, you two are young. And a lot of times you feel things but don't really understand them. So it's important to have a natural progression. Don't rush things. Once she knows you've been looking at her, she'll start to come around. Especially if she likes you back. Keep it simple. If all goes well, eventually, she'll start giving you signs and then you can think about taking her out on a more private setting. But until then, my suggestion, is keep it casual. Feel free to e-mail me if you have any other questions. LilDawgz7865@Yahoo.com
2006-12-25 06:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are only in the 7th grade so remember you have many years of dating ahead and for now keep it fun and simple. Try not to get to hung up on the asking or the doing.
Find something you both have in common kind of like you already have with both being smart. Then look for an event or something going on that fits for both of you and then when you are talking to her just kind of "suggest" that you two should to to the basketball game for example. Like, "Maybe we would meet at the game"
Or: "I plan on getting some ice cream from Baskin Robbins after school, ya' wanna go with me?"
Or: (Depending on what your school is doing) Helping decorate for a dance together: perfect opportunity to ask her to go with or meet there, or other school projects that you can ask her help on - thus be asking her "out" with you.
That way it makes it seem casual, less pressure.
2006-12-25 05:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by spitfin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm about to tell you exactly how to treat this, I speak from a point of expertise being the pick up artist that I am
Underplay the "date" aspect of it, and have her jump on already established plans, you said the movies right ...
"Hey did you see the preview for _______? God it looks awesome, I'm way excited to see it tomarow. Hey you know what, you should tag along with me and we can see it together!, isint that exciting!"
Imagine doing it perfectly in your head, then when you see her, follow the three second rule - because if you take any longer then 3 seconds your head and emotions will f**k you up =)
Good luck, if you need help with any other female issue, handleyjs@yahoo.com
2006-12-25 05:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Plethora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R A COOL DUDE so act coolly
Just have a big new year party at your home only so that your family can also enjoy and you can invite your whole class.
Organise different types of games. Serve her fav dishes n try to talk mostly with her friends not with her. This will make her attracting towards you.
If this will work than write me at riti_shamti@yahoo.co.in
I will give u some more tips
2006-12-25 18:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by Tamana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WARNING- (My message is always long and i love advicing and sharing my experiences with smally's like you.)Hey,cooldude i can share my experiences with you as i have gone through such experiences in my childhood..... ... When i was in 4th standard a girl named ankita sat beside me in my school and we were really duffers.One day i said her what i felt and got the prize.Again at 6th i got stuck with remya,i never kept any distance and told her and got succeeded.Now i was much confident and tried out my next chance at her another friend which was of higher standard and you know champ i got her.We met only in lunch,she told me to study so hard that i would get promoted to her class.I did so for her, came in top five.When i went to tell her i really got hurt,she was another guy.Again at 9th i met with another babes,we continued till the board did'nt came.And then i worked hard and without any diversions.Ultimately i succeeded.and passed with 75% in highschool.In 11th i again enjoyed all that with a new one and continued untill i qualified C.P.M.T and then i went to K.G.M.U. Here i am studing or suffering from 6months.Yes you are quite lucky guy that you are given an advice by me.I'm like your big brother.Just now i'm mailing to "anneliese van der pol" ,you know her?'Chelsey daniels of "that so raven" '.I have sent her my photos,see what happens........ So i'll give you an important advice that do'nt get addicted to these girls O.K.But if she is uncommon get stuck and never leave her.If she is accessible at evening take her to the nearest resturant,in which you feel some high profileness and confidence of not seeing by her father or anybody else.Never take her to movie untill you are not an adult.Talk about her family members and her likes and dislikes all time and never leave any chance to get her presence.Talk about your future, indulging her in that story as your close ones.Start indicating her from this very moment.Get her phone no. or mail i.d. of her if she is having.If she is already engaged show her that you are jealous of that guy.If this is your first experience i'll always say that please never get addicted to girls these are emotional locks,finding smarties like us.I am having the mail i.d. of lieske(anneliese)and that also personal ones.After one week of struggle in my holidays.
2006-12-25 06:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by lazzlo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out for sure. It means that shes into you but she's kinda shy. Girls love it when guys are brave and just ask them out I know it's seems like a bad idea because she might say no but you will appear to her as bold and brave
2016-03-29 06:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi lil bro!how sweet!first of all speak to yr mom or dad and tell them the truth.they'll understand it.then just on her b'day or a special day,take her to some special place like a park or something or do something 2 gether which u both like or call her home for a meal and when u go to leave her,just tell her abt yr feelings for her.don't feel bad if she doesn't like ,just continue to be frnds.all the best and may god shower blessing in u both!!
2006-12-25 07:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by gj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok . thts really good that youre doing well in school. ok lets see. that whole thing asking your friend to ask her is stupid so dont do that. just talk to her. its ok if youre scared, it happens to every1 . as for like a place to do it ...lunch . do it at lunch. well do it whenever u want to do. timing is like talking about your friendship , never do it when she is talking about another guy or something sad . if she says no its ok , u still hav 8th grade , high school , the rest of your life ! good luck kk !
2006-12-25 05:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok here is what you should do. After class you should walk her to her locker and be like what are you doing this weekend, do you want to go to the movies or something? And if she says no then just drop her ( its her lost) but if she says she is busy then be like o ok. Well I have to ask you another question then. Will you go out with me, like be my girlfriend. GOOD LUCK !!
2006-12-25 05:51:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhh...sweet im in 8th grade so maybe i can help if u really like her and you are afraid get one of your friends to help u ask her or write her a note .......the best place to take her mmm.....i have'nt went on my first date but take her out to eat so u can get to know her better o and DONT TELL HER SHES HOTT girls like to be called beautifull =P hope i helped.
xoxox kayla
2006-12-25 15:22:36 · answer #10 · answered by ~!~Kayla~!~ F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋