Is it normal or are we losing interest in each other???
i mean our 1st date was hot, 2nd was ok, 3rd was great , 4 and 5 was kinda boring, is that how its suppose to be?
i still like him
2006-12-25 04:36:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you just don't have enough in common. Try to find other things to do, to talk about, see if your dates become interesting again. If you can't...just forget about him. If you don't have that much in common, I don't think there's any point for dating anymore.
2006-12-25 04:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's got something ( someone) else on his mind. Maybe you are doing exactly what you did the other times, talking about the same thing repeatedly ( which would get old fast). Move on to new frontiers in this relationship, go places, do things and talk a lot the whole time to learn about each other. If you reach a point where you are " wondering" if you both have much in common it is then time to move on. If you have to ask the question, therein lies the answer.
2006-12-25 13:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you, I'd start off with going to Google, then typing date ideas then get picking some fun stuff!
Maybe going on a double date might help things as well if any of your others friends would be available.
If your 3rd date was so great then try and do something like that again.
2006-12-25 12:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by forgotful_guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people don't both have the same interest in each other, it happens often enough. If you find that you're having to invest more energy than he is then you may want to reconsider what you're doing for dates, or maybe his commitment to your relationship. Of course another issue that may or may not be involved: sex. If he feels that he's not going to get laid soon, then he may decide to let things fizzle out out and find someone more willing to drop her pants. Obviously I am not recommending that you spice things up by doing so, that's just cheap, but it just means that he thinks you're not worth the effort and energy and just wants a romp in the sack. Ever think of doing something unconventional for a date? The options are endless, but dinner and a movie doesn't cut it for everyone, myself included.
2006-12-25 12:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to go somewhere where the both of you can see something new for the both of you and this will build an interesting conversation and can definetly break the ice on alot of topics that both parties wanna get out.
2006-12-25 12:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by gsaul35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why it is boring. Maybe you two really have very little in common. If that is true, either find something in common or move on.
2006-12-25 12:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anpadh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just fizzling out and not the right one--so go back out a date some--have some fun!
2006-12-25 12:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am not an expert in dating but i think that u should enjoy ur time when u go out with ur bf =)
2006-12-25 12:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by flower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust cools if it was really love the fun would increase not decrease and it wouldn't be all about sex either!
2006-12-25 12:38:26 · answer #9 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are getting bored by eachother.
2006-12-25 13:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by InTROLLigent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋