she prefers hugs and kisses and gelato ice creams...
2006-12-25 04:34:36 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I could make it long but I'll keep it short and simple. You are in a great position. There is no way she'll be bad in bed unless you are too. Sex is the gift you give to each other in marriage, it's like having to wait till Christmas to open your gift then you get to rip it open or take your time just remember you may want you reuse the wrapping paper so don't be in too much of a hurry.
Also this way you can say your sex was better after marriage than before lol. I know I am making light of it but I would wait for a girl that has that much moral backbone when many others would give it up at the drop of a hat and that would mean not only to you.
Stick it out and marry her if you are serious about the relationship or end it and let her find someone that respects her moral position, but she sounds like a keeper to me
2006-12-25 04:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by Knight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well then here's what you should do:
1. Sit together and discuss openly about it and get to know her
views/ reasons why she doesn't want it.
2. Some people might have a bad experience in the past so i
guess she's very sensitive towards it this time and need to
make sure that your not playing games/tricks with her.
3. Gurls feel very insecure and need some time... try to convince
her and show your complete commitment to her.
4. Just be receiptive to what she wants... sex is not everything in
life... what matters is a relationship. So just try to build a nice
lovely and strong relationship... sex is a part of a relationship.
Hope the above mentioned points will help you make a right decision. I shall pray for both of you to stay together forever and make a best couple in this world.
Good Luck!
2006-12-25 04:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by just_4_frenz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good time to learn to compromise, as this is what any relationship is about, married or not. Just because you want sex doesn't mean she does. There is an old tradition used by people as soon as they learn that they have sex organs..it is called masturbation. Used before you know you are going to be with someone who turns you on, it prevents a relationship becoming only a sexual playground, and allows each person to feel free in the relationship, rather than meeting demands, or requests for something not yet available.
2006-12-25 04:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong about hugs and kisses and specialy gelato ice creams. You should really wait untill you get married, and try to enjoy the ice cream for now.
2006-12-25 04:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by Ruben Otero 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Manlaw proclaims that what you don't see is exactly what you get when it comes to women.
If you two can't EVEN AGREE on the timing of your first purely sexual experience, then what exactly is the whole purpose of getting married?
You obviously want "the stuff" -- she obviously ain't putting out before you give up 50% of whatever assets you own.
If this is a dealbreaker for you -- THEN TELL HER and act accordingly.
Manlaw encourages you do some self-reflection before you lose what little manhood you have left.
2006-12-25 04:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a bad thing?
I trust she means having sex with anyone else either?
Be happy she isn't if you want a girl to wear a white dress be faithful to her wishes. If you dont' want to do this then drop the relationship and move on.. if you love her you will wait.
2006-12-25 04:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're one of those people who their sex life is really important for them, then maybe it is beter to make sure that you two are sexually matched as well as emotionally. on the other hand, you should try to understand the reason which she is trying to not have sex with you, is it because of relegion or culture or ..., if she has some logical reasons and you really love her, then it is a sweet risk to wait and make love after marriage.
2006-12-26 05:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, you'll respect her request to wait until marriage. Remain faithful to her, do not let your testosterone get you in trouble. If you ever feel the desire to stray with other women, then break off the engagement, because she deserves better than someone who focuses so much on sex.
2006-12-25 04:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat the ice cream.
2006-12-25 04:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by somerandominternetperson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 16:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋