Can we marry a girl whom we have not seen personally, only thing is we have chated with her, and spoke through skype or phone. Can we propose her for marriage
2006-12-25 04:16:56 · 11 answers · asked by nag_bobs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Can i marry a girl whom i have not seen personally, only thing is i have chated with her, and spoke through skype or phone. Can we propose her for marriage
2006-12-25 19:42:49 · update #1
you should meet her in person first.
but do remeber living and being married to someone even that you do meet in person is difficult. just always keep in mind that there are still alot of things that you don't know about each other untill you marry and live together. COMPROMISE!!!
HOPE THAT HELPED :)
2006-12-25 05:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by hopeincubus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can do what you want.....but I or no one else can guarentee that it will be safe. My only questions are:
Have you met the girl in person????
If so, then you have 50 percent chance of knowing her a little bit and knowing that she doesn't only have the looks but also the full package with the personality and the brains.
If not, you might want to set a playdate or a luncheon....she could be setting you up and she might be a man, she might be over 500 pounds if that doesn't bother you, and she could really not be the type pf person you think she is.
Have you ever seen any pictures of her and her you???
If so, then you might want to reconsider the picture, it could be a phony. Again, a 50/50 situation here.
If not, then wait off til' you bot meet in person and get to know each other more romantically and rekindle in a friendship first.
This is just what I would do..... and if you are under 18 (I wouldn't know) you might want to take a couple of friends and tell people were you are going and were you wil be at all times. Go double dating at first and then the next few times you go out, it will be different because you would know the girl alot better!!!
2006-12-25 04:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by **(:Cady:)** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While many people have met their future spouse's on the internet, including myself, it is never ever a good idea to ask her to marry you before you even meet.
As honest as she seems, and perhaps even is, you need to know that people will always put on their best side when chatting or e-mailing. She may be all you think she is but you will never know until you are actually together. And that takes time also.
The Internet is a marvelous way to meet people. But it in no way can ever replace dating and getting to know someone in person.
I was close enough to come down on weekends and ultimately we lived together for several months before marriage. While living together is not required you must spend the time to really get to know her and she you. Chatting is great for that but you always get a one sided view. She will only say what she wants you to hear.
You want to marry her. Do you know how she feels about that? If you don't and are just hoping you may be asking for trouble. She may love to chat with you and is attracted but if you were to ask her it may change your whole relationship.
So how will you know. Ask her to marry you. If she comes back with something like this......"Wow that is a surprise.....I am so flattered.....but maybe we should slow down a bit huh?" or anything like that you have made a fatal mistake.
A woman can be anything on-line....just like a guy can. She could be married but loves to chat and have fun. She may have a boy friend but loves to chat and have fun.
My son once was chatting with a woman that sent a picture. She was a knockout. Very hot. He was so excited. One day he showed the picture to his sister.......she took one look and said.....why do I know that face. It was an actress she was familiar with. He had already purchased airline tickets to go see her. This was not my son, he had never flown before in his life, but he felt that good about her.
When he ask her about the photo and told her he was coming to see her........everything changed. She did not respond about the picture but thought it not a good idea that he come. She tried to be nice and not hurt him but she did.
This was a lesson we all should learn.
Never ever get too close to anyone on-line until you meet them and see for yourself that they are who they say they are. EVER.
Makes no difference that they are across town or across the country.
2006-12-25 04:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly encourage you to met this girl first. Just look at it this way, you met her..you may fall more in love with her and find out she's more than expected. Or, it may be the reverse..then you will save much more heart break in the end.
2006-12-25 06:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by Michael and Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is we? 'We' cannot marry anyone. A wife is not to be shared.
Also, no you should not marry someone you havent met. Chatting online may be a way to meet people but it does not substitute for dating.
2006-12-25 04:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by ratluke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two meet first in person then see from there.
2006-12-26 03:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not mate!
2006-12-25 06:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by YummyRemmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet her first
2006-12-25 04:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!!! you havent even met her why would you???
2006-12-25 04:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not the best idea ever...
2006-12-25 13:54:07 · answer #10 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋