Do you think romantic relationships can survive without sex? It's just that I've promised myself that I would remain a virgin till I'm married. Is it possible or I'm just being naive?
2006-12-25 03:53:13 · 22 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's definitely possible but you'll need to find a boyfriend who is willing to wait but at least you'll know he's damn serious about you.
2006-12-25 03:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Paul L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people will tell you its rubbish. Not me. Recently a group of british girls formed a virginity club stating that they will not have sex untill married. My own religion (Christian Orthodox) is all for the idea, too. Most people dont follow that, however, if you can find a companion who will respect you and believe the same, yes it is possible. Afterall, what if your other half gets involved in an accident and cant have sex anymore? will you brake up? Sex is a great deal in a healthy relationship, but not everything. I dont know if you will make it, but i wish you the best, and i certainly dont think you are crazy, and im 32 and have had a fair share of sex and relationships in life.
Merry Xmas
2006-12-25 04:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible as long as you don't ask your fiance to wait two years before getting married.
While many men still love the idea of marrying a virgin...I would think that today... as many men would not want to get married until they had sex with their future spouse. And if you are going to marry him... does it really matter that it is before or after marriage. The only important thing is that he is the guy you are going to marry. And if it turn out to be a mistake... it is better to find out before marrying him than after.
And you going to have a very tough time to have any kind of long term relationship with anyone without having sex. So you are really relying on love at first sight. You meet him and marry him within six months.
For my part... I would not marry someone I have only know for six months. It take that long for people to start opening up and be themselve. I don't like surprises.
2006-12-25 04:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Aussies-Online 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl anything is possible and you are doing the right thing by saving yourself for marriage i wish that i could have. But N E Way sex is something that people take lightly even with all the stds out here people are still not aware that sex can kill u. You are on the right path and hopefully u will find a guy who is still a virgin and when that day comes it will be special for the both of u. Good luck and MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!
2006-12-25 04:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way can it survive. Well....Maybe the first few months but after that something will have to give. Now get this....We have a male friend who is 42 and is still a virgin. ( I know...I know...The movie ) He's a good looking guy and has a good job but when he meets a nice lady and then says "I'm a virgin" the lady "Runs like heck" to get away from him. I guess I'm saying this......If you are young you can get away with it. ( Being Virgin ) But if you are 30 and still are all I can say is.....Good luck on being alone.
2006-12-25 19:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can work if you go ahead and get married in a reasonable amount of time. but if you think you're going to be with someone platonically for like 10 years or more without taking it to that level i'd wonder if perhaps the relatoinship is a bit artificial; perhaps there are other, deeper issues that are preventing you from either marrying the person or being with him in that way.
2006-12-25 03:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have decided to stay a virgin, then that is who you are and the choice you have made. If a man doesn't wish to resepct that, then he isn't the man for you. Honestly, sex is very important to alot of people, but your morals are just as important to you. As they should be. Too many people give in to peer pressure, and that is all it is. Trust your own instincts. Be true to yourself, always! You will know when you are ready to give yourself to another! Personal choice is your power!
Best of luck.
2006-12-25 03:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible. It will be tough but it is possible. It will take alot of inner strength to not give in to that pressure. I think you are on the right track in your thinking and wish you the best of luck.
If you can find someone that you can connect with that will wait for you, then you will know that you have found someone that is going to be around forever.
2006-12-25 04:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by ratluke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not impossible. However in today's day and age it will be difficult to find a man willing to be sexless for months until marriage.
I say good for you to want to save yourself until you are married. I dont know when and where this changed because this is the way it used to be..
2006-12-25 04:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by nikogal2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as U love U everything will be all right. They say Sex is not over rated when we all know, that the best Sex U will ever have will be with U'r self!
2006-12-25 03:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, there are a lot of people around here who feel that way. But good luck finding one near you. Virginity has become very overrated.
2006-12-25 04:12:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋