Guys: Do you think it's wrong that girls always say that you date them for lust?

Question

Lots of girls always say they broke up with their bfs cause he just wanted sex. i just wanted the guys point of view. do you guys date girls for sex or is it real love?

Answer 1

Depends on the guy. I can only answer for me. I have never pursued a girl for sex. I believe that sex is a bonus in a relationship. I would choose being with the woman of my dreams and raising a family over sex any day. <--- If I had to give up sex for the rest of my life in order to find my soul mate I would do it. (Okay, I know you can't have kids without sex, but I would adopt.) Being in love and all the positive emotions/feelings from that far outweigh any feeling from sex.

Answer 2

I don't think it's wrong because i'm sure females think their point is valid. A lot of guys will date a female just to get sex. But I would hate for a female to accuse me of that because those aren't my ways. When you say "real love," now, you begin to date a person hoping that it will turn into real love, you don't have real love for a person and then begin to date them. If a guy tells you he loves you before you begin to date him, a warning flag should automatically go up because it ain't love that he's after!

Answer 3

What the hell else would he want ? Companionship, lmao - guys are males, who are naturally providers - they dont need a woman to provide for them (were speaking evolutionary genetics that has been hard wired into are brains). What they need from a woman is a mate who will keep their genes from going extinct - so yes, all guys just want sex.

However that dosent mean sex is the only thing a man enjoys in a relationship, I've been "with" someone because they were mad hott, and I've been with someone because they were fun to hang around, but I still wanted sex from the latter. =)

So in summary - guys only reason for 'dating' is sex, but thats not the only thing they enjoy in a relationship =)

Answer 4

i do no longer possibly care what so ever, i do no longer understand why those have a subject with it in any case. I even have heard from my fellow black women that we in straightforward terms get pissed is while the black guy will nonetheless proceed to throw around the same old, wiped out stereotypes for all persons black women persons while he out of easily all and sundry must know we at the instant are not a similar. some women persons have reported they are self haters, which i don't know the way that remotely is clever. And others hate how the black adult adult males get mad while black women persons date white adult adult males, despite the fact that this is positive for them to date white women persons.

Answer 5

First, you have to realize that men pick dates based on how they might be as sexual partners, and their fertility. So it is every man's expectation to get into her as soon as possible. Some of us are just very patient.

I guess you could say I liked every woman I went to bed with, some more than others. But it is not necessary to love her.

Answer 6

No man can 'fall in love' it is true nature for men to want to copulate rather than hold hands... ask any normal guy that, they may not have the courage to say it, but I guarantee you, that's the truth.

Answer 7

its not wrong for girls to think that, girls are girls and no man can tell what they are thinking. but if you are dating a guy that dos not want to have sex with you he probaly gay

Answer 8

Depends on the girl.

Answer 9

Both

Answer 10

My EX boyfriend tells me that he loves me and he still gets in my pants!