okay, I'm popular and so is my boyfriend, but one of my friends like him too. And I'm afraid he might break up with me to get together with her.
2006-12-25 03:34:39 · 13 answers · asked by dukky147 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he breaks up with you,nothing to be upset.Because it proves that he is those kind of unfaithful idiots out there you know.If he can do this to you when you guys are into relationship,most probably when he dates your friend.And it happens that he falls in love with another girl he happens to know or whatever is it.Then won't he be like doing the same to your friend like he did to you in the first place?!
He breaks up with you cause he don't love you true heartedly and its nothing to him to break up with you.
As for your friend who like your bf,if she is your friend then why in the first place would she make herself develop that kind of feelings for your boyfriend.Its doesn't make sense at all.
Sometimes I think that humans shouldn't spare any thought in the area of love. If both are having the two way love for each other,no matter who came between to break the couple up,its not going to work if there's trust and love for each other.
So I would suggest you work things out with your boyfriend whenever there's a conflict,just talk it out no matter how long it takes.Afterthat,forgive and forget. Don't ever mention the matter if you really meant to forgive and forget. Which right now I think you should let your boyfriend know that your friend likes him so he would not be like talking to your friend and send signals to your friend that he likes her too. and how he feels,if whether he ever had that kind of feelings for her NOW.
Another thing is talking to your friend,tell her about your relationship with him. If your boyfriend decided to go for her,then he's just useless to stay faithful to any girl. Its better to know his true colour than later. If he decided to stay with you,then ask him to make it clear to your friend about how he just treat her as A FRIEND ONLY.
That's all I am suggesting.
So good luck for you okay?
(:
2006-12-25 03:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by -casuallife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if he really likes and digs you ..you wont have a thing to worry about but on the other hand you havent got anything to lose cause if he breaks up with you ..you are better off cause he really didnt love you in the first place.
2006-12-25 03:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget about it if it happens, than shes not a true friend at all like the saying boys come and go but friends stay forever
2006-12-25 03:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by read_laugh-love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer a very effective difficulty to be in unfotunately. consisting of your dating being on the improve degree that's probably you need to attempt suggesting which you do issues together to get out and meet new human beings ? that's going to be stable for you the two yet its a diffused way of weening him off his previous pals. it ought to get to a factor the place you will desire to do issues seperately at situations in case you particularly cant manage being together with his friends, he will would desire to understand the reasonings in the back of this regardless of the indisputable fact that and you will would desire to be arranged to combat your motives. My companion and that i nevertheless have "seperate" pals besides the actuality that we've been together very nearly 2 years now, there are in basic terms a number of his pals I cant tolerate in great doses and vice versa- we in basic terms had to settle for it, yet in some procedures its worked as an benefit- once you or him prefer a evening out with the chums the different you may nevertheless do the drop off and %. up element so it leaves you unfastened to drink with friends and so forth and the different one isnt left feeling bored of annoyed in the disliked business enterprise. Its troublesome to confess once you have seperate pastimes yet time aside could additionally do the relationshop wonders!
2016-12-15 07:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep her away from him. There is no such thing as a perfect boyfriend or friend. There's always room for mistakes, talking from plenty of experience.
2006-12-25 04:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by middelmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You become what you think. If you think this will happen you may will this to happen. Will that you and your BF will get pst this with your GF and be stronger and more in love. GF is lost and she will find someone that is special for her --- wish that for her but do not will your BFR to her HOney
2006-12-25 03:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by Sports Maven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the first step of LOVE is TRUST
2006-12-25 03:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by heartattack262000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're popular.. get over here quickly!
2006-12-25 03:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by kewlmocha1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a true friend , this wont happen.
2006-12-25 03:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that it is hands off!!!
2006-12-25 03:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋