my boyfriend is so sweet and awsome around me .but when were with his friends he treats me like crap i told him how i feel and he gat mad.....what should i do?
2006-12-25 03:18:52 · 29 answers · asked by tea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him if he can't respect you as his significant other in front of his friends then he has to go. If he's acting this way in front of you what is he telling them without you around. You don't have to put up with his macho attitude and actions. Give him a chance to change, but be prepared to get out of the relationship.
2006-12-25 03:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That young fellow needs a lot more maturity and you should not allow him to make you his property or an ornamant for enhancing his self esteem. Anytime someone makes you feel bad, one should consider a big change in the relationship.
Trust me. I'm an old geezer with many past lovers and have barely outgrown my youthful habits. My opinion is that most men never treat their wives and girl friends as well as they deserve to be treated. Oh, and often vice-versa. My second (and current) wife and I enjoy mutual respect and look forward to a few more mutually satisfying years together.
Good luck to all of you chasing those satisfying relationships.
2006-12-25 03:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by Nightstalker1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not break up for such a silly reason. Talk it over with him when he is in a good mood. Tell him it hurts your ego. He has no right to treat you like that in front of friends. If he loves you he will understand and mend his ways.
2006-12-25 03:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have a thing that is called ego. Everyone has it, but guys when around there buddies tent to get embarrassed when they act sweet towards their girls when around the other guys. This is probably what's happening with him. He thinks it's being cute in front of his friends. I don't know what to tell you except maybe threaten to stop seeing him if he doesn't stop do it. Ask him to just act decent to you when around his friends and don't put you down in front of them.
2006-12-25 03:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by golden rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give him a taste of his own medcation. An leave em alone if hes not going to treat you like a lady all the time then he needs to be lift alone.
2006-12-25 03:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by deeva_missthang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his *** to the curb girly!A guy who treats a girl like crap around his guy friends must be a fag.Tell him that he wont get much pussy out of his friends.
2006-12-25 03:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by toyleta babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already answered the question. Treat him like crap.
2006-12-25 03:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a sort of defence mechanism for some men that they think they are cool by embarass their girlfriends in front of their friends just tell him that if he doesn't stop this and treat you like he treats you when you are alone then there will be a realy good chance that you brake up..if he likes you then he will stop it
2006-12-25 03:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how many times do u ask this question??? every one told u in ur last ques that u should break up. to me it seems like you like to be treated like crap! you post the same question hopping some one says keep him!
2006-12-25 03:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by Sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time he does it, do something or say something in front of his friends that will embarress him. That should make him realize that you are not going to keep putting up with it anymore. If he continues to do it, move on. Good Luck!
2006-12-25 03:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋