Me and my boyfriend dated for 3 years. We took a 'break' beginning of November and got back together 2nd week of December. So I open my present from him today and he got me a SCARF and MITTENS! I'm not complaining about the monetary value of the gift, but more the sentimental. We always get each other gifts with meanings. I opened it in front of my parents and they were like, oohhh nice. I put so much effort into his gift, I'm just kind of upset. I just figured he'd get me something more romantic. I know he bought his sister a scarf too. I would understand if he bought me gifts like this in the past, but he hasn't. He's always bought me great meaningful gifts. Should I mention something or am I being over emotional? Could our little break up have anything to do with it? I opted for the 'break' and initialized the getting back together. Confused....argghhhh.
2006-12-25 03:12:00 · 18 answers · asked by Fae von Rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well because you have been apart for a while maybe he doesnt know what to get you because you's have just got back together he might think that if he got you a more romantic or expensive present that you think he is just trying to buy you back or imprees you with gifts, but by giving you a scalf and mittens he wants you to think he is thinking about you through love
2006-12-25 03:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the "break" does have something to do with it. I don't mean to sound so shallow, but maybe he feels you initialized the getting back together just to get a present. Sounds silly, doesn't it? Well, let me tell you about some of the females i've dated in the past. Mostly all of them had birthdays coming up within days of our just getting together, thus the saying: All women lie about their age. This may not be you, but do you know for sure that this "break" hasn't happened to him in the past? Also, you should give him a little more time to get back to feeling the same way he did about you before you "opted" for the break. Since you initialized the getting back together and not him, could he have agreed to it to spare your feelings?
2006-12-25 03:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by Grrr! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got the gift during the break most likely not knowing when you were going to get back together. He got you a friend gift and that is what he thought of you at the time.
2006-12-25 03:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well some men just don't know how to shop. But if he's bought you more meaningful things in the past, it seems sort of strange that he didn't do that this year. Maybe it's because of the "break" you took from eachother and he thought you guys weren't as close to give you something more meaningful.
2006-12-25 03:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by NICOLE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he did a great job of letting you know that if you take a break, it may really cool things off and does effect the relationship. You are not the only one in the relationship.
2006-12-25 03:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by Faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 08:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey at least you got a gift i did not it may be becuz of your break up and he was under a lott of pressure and hey it may be a compliment tthat now hes treating you more like family getting you a present like his sisters or maybe he was low on cash who knows
2006-12-25 03:18:30 · answer #7 · answered by Queen of Boredom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about u grow up and stop being a spoiled brat. Maybe he thought you needed it or maybe thats what he wanted to give you. To him it could of been romatic.. Say something you will hurt his pride and he might never get you anything again or better yet leave your selfish a&s
2006-12-25 03:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by Alexis221 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
girls are oversensitive.. so what's the big deal about a difference in the gift? it may mean something to us girl but to the guy, he has no other intention.
2006-12-25 03:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might have some money problems. and besides love is in you guys, not the presents.
2006-12-25 03:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋