This guy has been going out with this girl for more than half an year. The guy is now flirting with me alot. I'm a big flirt so its hard for me to tell him to stop. I also like the attention. All of my friends say that he likes me but i dont want her to catch me flirting with him.
2006-12-25 03:08:07 · 10 answers · asked by midwest girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me and the girl are not friends.
2006-12-26 02:05:30 · update #1
Maybe try telling him that he has a girlfriend and he needs to be flirting with her, and not other people. Just be honest on how you feel. Tell him you're flattered but he has a girfriend and you just don't fee that it's right.
2006-12-25 03:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word. Ninjas.
Nothing says "leave me the hell alone" like a midnight ambush by black-clad martial artists. (Let me know if you want to go this route.)
On the other hand, I think the key to fixing this whole situation is to bring the other girl up to speed. This guy, frankly, is a loser. He's got a girlfriend, and he's chasing you...and that's not fair to either of you. If you get everything out in the open and he has to make a clear choice, things might get better.
Then ideally you could both reject him simultaneously. :)
Keep in mind, he's willing to flirt with you behind his current girlfriend's back...you shouldn't expect him to treat you any better.
2006-12-25 03:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by David G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all you want is the attention and you aren't into him then it shouldn't be that hard for you to find another guy to get the attention from. it sounds as though you also like the attention that the drama brings; at the end of the day though that'll ruin your social life a lot more than if no one else ever knew about it.
2006-12-25 03:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation before. I just liked I didn't just stop talking t the person who is flirting to me, I just told him to go hang out with your girlfriend more then me because I'm going out with someone and you're going out with someone. GOOD LUCK
2006-12-25 03:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by dukky147 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... while you're flirting with him "between not in a joking tone but don't sound too serious" ask him how his girl would feel if she catches you two flirting :)
2006-12-25 03:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by Maximus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop flirting.
Or have a hot torrid affair and get it over with.
2006-12-25 03:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by Faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting does the body good.
As long as you aren't crossing the line, then all is FAIR.
2006-12-25 03:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him u guys shouldnt be flirting cause hes in a relationship. or tell her that hes flirting wit u. she miht understand or it will back fire. butits better to talk to him first.
2006-12-25 03:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like both you and your girlfriend like him and you do not want him to come between your friendship with her. If so, I would suggest you decide how you feel about him and come to some understanding with your girlfriend about it.
2006-12-25 03:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by curiousJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its because your flirting with him.stop flirting with him and maybe he will stop.
2006-12-25 03:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋