i am deeply in love with this guy, he has just broke up with his gf, with whom he has been together for, for 2 years. she still lives in his house but in a separate room, bcuz her parents live in another town and shes got a great job where shes at. i get really jelouse and frustrated at times. and i live in another country and i can hardly do anythin bout it. sometimes i jus think he is keepin her around for sex. i cant let him go as much as i want to. ahhh! its eating me up inside. sum1 help!!
2006-12-25 03:02:10 · 9 answers · asked by Straw^BerrY A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless you have some short term plan of getting closer physically to this guy (the same country) then I would forget about him. It is really unaceptable for your boyfriend to live with his ex. You could continue to have a casual relationship with him, but don't expect him to not have sex with her. You might just save yourself some pain in the long run and dump him now. Just make yourself do it, even though you are having so much pain with him. come to your senses. spend some time on your own. take a long walk. you will know the right thing to do.
2006-12-25 03:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man I love lives in another country as well, =( =( =(
I am so sorry sweety, I wonder the same thing... I feel very sad and I can't help crying a lot... But just try to think of something else, get into different activities and stuff... well everyone tell me to do all that but I'm already very busy and it isn't working so good, but it may work for you...
Also keep in touch with him, and if things are going to work out you just have to be pacient, if not well time will heal your pain...
GOOD LUCK
2006-12-25 03:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seem at it this manner, if he were your husband and yet he says hes in love with yet another woman what would you opt for him to do? artwork it out or leave? seem, i recognize apparently, sounds, and feels authentic yet what ya'll are coping with is an infatuation. no be counted how lengthy you've standard this guy over the web he will be truly a lot different in authentic existence than he says he's. at the same time as it includes affairs it isn't a authentic love that you're coping with, the guy you're having an affair with is basically filling those needs they have that their significant different isn't filling. would you opt for another woman filling those needs of your husband that you weren't filling? Please, be respectful of the spouse and decrease backtrack. you're assisting to smash a wedding ceremony than needs help desperately. i recognize he would say he really needs you yet you want to enable him bypass. in case you truly love him you'll try this for the betterment of him and his relatives.
2016-10-16 21:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young and impressionable my dear. The guy is probably giving you that story because you are his fantasy girl, not his gf or lover. That story keeps you loyal to him, while he has a wife and family happy as can be.
Get over him and find someone you can see and feel.
Good Luck
2006-12-25 03:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel huney you need to talk to him one of you needs to make the decision to move and ask him if hes just keeping that hussy around for sex if he really and truly loves you and is in love with you he wont lie to you and you need to tell him how you feel about this floosy sittin around in his house girl if it was me i would have been went off by now but yea jus tell him how you feel and whats on your mind im sure you have a lot to say
2006-12-25 03:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man I love is in another country too.I can offer no advice other than to say best wishes...I know exactly how it can eat you up inside,dear.
2006-12-25 03:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there anyway that you two can get together??? or just like that?? if yes.. then WORK ON IT
good luck..
I know the exact feeling of loving someone who's in another country
2006-12-25 03:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by Maximus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't belive u are putting up with this!!! Have u even met the guy?? what makes you think he is telling the truth?? why are we women so dumb???
2006-12-25 03:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by Sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is still sleeping with her ....i don't even have to know more your younger than him right?
2006-12-25 03:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋