I never get it when I read responses and people are sooo mad at the woman your man cheated with.
I have read things like these woman are whores,dogs etc.
Quick question to ponder ladies......Why are you not calling the man who cheated on YOU and broke your trust a "whore" and a "dirty dog"?
Is it possible that this man who considers it okay to have sex with someone else "by accident" ( what, did he trip and fall naked in bed with her?) can be the SAME kind of man that manipulates his "girlfriend" with lies and BS? A cheater ALWAYS pits the women against eachother so you are not putting the blame where it rreally belongs.....ON HIM.
I was once cheated on in the past and although I wasnt overly thrilled with the other woman, I knew that she didnt owe me anything, he probably sweet talked and played her too and I put the responsibility where it should be.....on him.
I have been confused about a lotof things in my life,but cheating is not one of them.
2006-12-25 02:55:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are alot of possibilities...but most of the time I feel the same way you do. If a guy/girl gets caught cheating you should be mad at the person you are with more than anyone else...whats even crazier is that they will get upset at the other person and will stay with their gf/bf who just cheated on them...ridiculous.
Now there are certain circumstances...like if my gf cheated on me with a friend of mine id be alot more upset with him than her, although I would still def. end it with her. Or if it was with an acquaintance who knew about our rel id be p*ssed at them equally.
2006-12-25 03:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by wcbaseball4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its human psycology. The fact of a woman cheating in bed witha nother man will drive u crazy. Why beacuse the woman you love is risking having another mans baby, just for pleasure with that man. That idea can be very hurting. As for a man cheating a woman, feels the same way, beacuse sex is a very intimate thing, organs and pleasure that should be used for mates in love. why? beacuse it is meant to reproduce, and you only reproduce with people u love (in humans, and even then, not alawys :) ) Apart from this the lie, being lied to and be looked as somebody stupid. When u love and u dedicate urself to somebody if they cheat I feel is the obligation to tell. But not telling is selfish and demeaning for the victim. Also cheating hurts beacuse he/she did not acre about you and ur feelings just to satisfy and urge, which sounds very animalistic. But the problem is men and women are just very well educated animals. So many will act like a wild one. Without carying about anything just their urges. If they do this leave them, specially if they lied about it, and u found out elsewhere, or if they keep doing it. I hope this helps.
2016-05-23 05:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Granted both cheaters are in the wrong, especially if the other woman is aware that there is someone else, but what does she have to lose...possibly nothing? She is not going to have a broken heart or be scared over the ordeal. But the man who DOES knows there is someone else and is so inconsiderate to another humans feelings is nothing but a maggot and scum on the earth. It's a typical man thing, to feel they have power and control. But really they are nothing but weak and pathetic individuals trying to be someone they can never be.
2006-12-25 03:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by boogians 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you care, are you that other woman yourself? that girl is a ditry dog and a whore, and what type of woman really wants someone that is someone else's man? perhaps things aren't working out for her at home or she needs someone in her life, perhaps your man is telling her that he loves her, that he'll be there for her and all of the things he should be telling you, that still doesn't make it right for that other woman to go through with it. any true friend won't do that to someone else's relationship, regardless of whatever problems the man says that he is having with his girlfriend at home. a real woman isn't interested or up to the challenge of a man who is satisfied elsewhere, she can find her own someone who would really want her. a lot of these girls have some schmuck at home that they don't respect, and that they're bored with, so they're out there with some other man that they can't really have that keep them on the edge. they're trying to make that guy jealous or keep him in line knowing that the guy will do it and give that extra effort that he normally wouldn't do.
how is that being confused about things in life; women know that their man is out there cheating, how they choose to deal with it, they know when their men are weak and give into just anything, anybody. why they choose to stay with them is another issue, but if they're truly in love they'll take that denial just to keep the relationship going. it's just good that you don't have to for yourself.
2006-12-25 03:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have also been cheated on...I was angry at her, but after I talked to her I found out she didn't even know about me. We started comparing some stories and actually set him up and busted him good. He was dumped twice and her and I became friends. Men are just dogs!!! (And I apologize to all the canines there!!)
2006-12-25 03:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by soonerbelle71 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes 2 to tango so the guy's at fault for cheating and the woman, if she knew the guy was married or with someone else...she's also at fault.
2006-12-25 03:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by janikdotcom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way..I hate to say it but the other person is also the victim in his cheating ways. He knows he was in a relationship and he should know better but her...im sure she didnt know at all .
2006-12-25 03:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't agree more... it's called "cheating" when the other part of a relationship "cheats" .. you don't call the person they slept with "cheater".. lol
blame the "CHEATER"
2006-12-25 02:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by Maximus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason women get mad at the other female is that their self confidence is hurt. They think: what does she have that I don't? they try to find a reason why their men were attracted to her....and that's what's bugging them.
2006-12-25 03:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by Sweety 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. i would never blame the other lady he cheated on with i would blame him because how do i know that the women was the victim too how do i know that she knew that he was with me i dont it was his actions so its his concequences
2006-12-25 03:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋