2006-12-25 02:52:58 · 16 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes... 80 % of the cases start with lust... you look at a girl. and you like her because of her looks (MOSTLY)... if she's not hot.. chances are 80 % that you will NOT try to meet her
2006-12-25 02:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Maximus 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, I don't think lust can turn into love. That is two entirely different emotions. If you lust after someone, it usually turns cold as soon as you meet someone else who you think is prettier or sexier. Love, "true love" doesn't change or end. I think lust is created by the physical side of everything. Love on the other hand is created by not just the physical, although that doesn't always hurt, but by personality and mentality and lots of things. Lust is pretty much "one dimensional."
2006-12-25 11:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by CB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my boyfriend was just a ONS guy , then after the 5th time we had sex, he asked to be my boyfriend, and he is so doting on me since then, was very happy. Proves that lust really turns into love. But quite rare though.
2006-12-25 11:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by jade s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the lust-er or the object of desire?
Lust can turn into love, but it takes work on the part of the lust-er. Once he/she realises that the object of desire is not perfect, he/she will generally lose interest, but the object of desire can transform lust into love by not giving the lust-er what he/she desires until respects, understanding and mutual attraction exists.
2006-12-25 10:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mike R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can for the woman, but it rarely does for guys. I fell in love with someone after lusting after him, but he fell in love and then it turned to lust and now he's married to someone else. My life is over. So yeah, it changes for women, but probably not for men.
2006-12-25 10:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kitten Hood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frequently does. What's lusted after can be indicative of other features which can form the basis for love.
2006-12-25 11:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love usually starts as lust=D
2006-12-25 10:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by cute_lil_surfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One should refrain from lust in the first place. Base love on friendship, commitment, and faith. The flesh passes. The soul is eternal.
2006-12-25 10:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by o_nepenthe_o 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lust is a type of love...it can certainly evolve into what you might think you want though...
2006-12-25 10:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by elchavoguapo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Most relationships ( I believe) start out this way.
2006-12-25 10:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by Firefighters Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋