My long term, live in girlfriend and I split up and she moved out. We split up because we argued too much. She hooks up with the first guy that comes along and is now pregnant by him after just moving out of my house months ago.
Is he a rebound?
The new guy doesn't want the baby and has stopped talking to her a couple of months ago. Even though they don't talk both of their profiles say "In a relationship"
My friends tell me that she is waiting for him to change his mind. My friends also tell me that she looks at my profile regulary.
How could she do this? Was he a rebound? Why doesn't she miss me the way I miss her? Why are they still "in a relationship" even though they don't talk? Do you think she has regrets about leaving me? Why is this driving me crazy?
2006-12-25 01:45:39 · 18 answers · asked by forgot my real name 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-25 01:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
He's a rebound. But for whatever reason, she is over you and you need to accept that fact. Stop wasting your time and go out and find someone who will return the love you give. By the way, constant arguing is not a loving relationship. Love is about friendship and respect.
2006-12-25 01:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by mJc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should respect her choice. If you are willing and want to accept her back, tell her you'll always be there for her. But if you're not, then you are caught up in the past and useless feelings. You should move on and treat her merely as a friend you can support during times of need.
2006-12-25 02:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by HopeGrace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea,it's a rebound thing.if she's waiting on the guy to change his mind,boy is she in for a real treat.girls get pregnant to trap a guy,,,and sometimes it don't work out the way they plan it,then the mom to be ends up on welfare,,,for our tax $ to care for the child.girls don't think about this,all they want to do is go have fun at other people expenses.men marry women that are pregnant with another mans child to be,and I don't know how in this world they do it.I think it's pretty ---- low of a woman to do this to man, but if the gut wants to marry in that situation,,,that's him.
go find you a real lady that will love you for who you are,and blow this girl off.you deserve a hell of alot better.
2006-12-25 02:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by hl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is driving you crazy as you haven't come to terms the relationship between you and her is over with as for the guy she hooked up with yes he was a rebound, some folks who break up will have the status in a relationship as they haven't changed it even though they broke up. the father of the baby won't change his mind and don't be to surprised if she tries to rebound to you to play surrgate dad to her unborn child
2006-12-25 01:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by precious_52803 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, sounds like a rebound that went terribly wrong for both of them. First: how do you know 4 sure she doesn't miss you? Second: A proflie that says "in realtionship" is just that, doesn't make it true or real. Third: yes, I'm sure she has regrets about you, and that goes with Fourth......get ahold of her and talk things out, then you won't make yourself crazy.
2006-12-25 01:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The reason whys she waiting for him because of the baby, but if you want her back and can accept that she is having another guys baby. and that you can raise it as if it was yours, go for it. call her up and tell her that. she might be thinking you won't want nothing to do with her since shes having someone Else's baby. and i would say she misses you because she looks at your profile, so if you love her so much try and get her back, but now that baby is part of that package, so think if you can really treat that child as your own.and you won't resent it.
2006-12-25 01:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well she is your ex girlfriend. You shouldn't care about her love life anymore. If you want to get back together with her, show her you care. Try not to argue. This will bring you closer to eachother. Even though the baby isnt yours, you should still try to take care of it. Show the mom you love her and her baby very much. She may of left you, but ask her for another chance.
2006-12-25 01:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by Courtney 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Manlaw express prohibits any communication between you and your "ex" unless she is your "baby momma" or is stopping by your place for a "booty call".
Manlaw also establishes that your "ex" is your "ex" for a reason and it is your obligation to find a suitable replacement AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
Take notice that your "ex" has already DONE THIS and she is NOT even a man!
I hate to tell you but you are "catching feelings" for ONE woman and manlaw highly discourages this self-defeating behavior.
Read this 5 times and drink a beer.
2006-12-25 02:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just talk to her and ask her if she still has feelings for you, but don't do this if you're not trying to mend your relationship and accept her child. You don't want to open up old wounds, being pregnant can be stressful enough.
2006-12-25 01:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds kind of similar to me, but my ex didn't get pregnant.
I can understand your frustration, I suggest you move on and let time and other relationships help you forget her.
this drama could only bring negativity and depression to you, and that would not be good.
2006-12-25 01:51:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋