i cant find her and im tierd of looking and waisting my time. sex isnt enough anymore if im in a loveless relationship i feel like im being sucked dry..
2006-12-25 01:43:48 · 22 answers · asked by em. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont believe in soulmate, but I am deeply in love. You have to find someone whom you are compatible with, and dont take it too fast at first. Wait to have sex.
2006-12-25 01:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course i believe in soulmates, however you are thinking that a soulmate is someone (just one) that you spend the rest of your life with on a romantic level. This is not the case. A soulmate can be a brother, sister, mother, father, or a friend. What you are thinking of is actually called a twin flame. There is a huge difference. The one thing that i have learn is that when you stop looking for that "one" or someone to spend your time with is actually when they show up. Think about the things in life that you would like to do, your goals etc. and while you are working on this maybe, just maybe the universe will bring you that person whom you will spend the rest of your life with. Good luck and have faith.
2006-12-25 02:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by Paige 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do.
Yes, sex is definitely not enough.
In fact, I think that one can enjoy a relationship even if not the sex part of it, while it would be difficult to be in a long term relationship just for the sake of sex.
What is there to talk about?
What is there to share?
What about the pleasure of doing small things together?
Hold hands; looking in each other eyes...
Yep. Definitely. You need to have that special bound with someone to enjoy being in the relationship;
Besides, when you love someone, you would stand by them no matter what; would have that strengh and desire to be there, and even love them more.
Sex is important of course, but on its own its just....a physical need that nearly anyone could help you fulfill if you were desperate.
2006-12-25 04:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
soul mate no.. true love, yes. the term Soul mate seems to say that it's all just so easy and there will never be problems. Like its some kind of ideal where two people are just so connected that they know each other instantly & deeply. I don't believe in that bollocks. 2 people will always have their differences. No matter how great a couple is together, staying together will take work.. lots of work, especially if they are truely in love. When you love another you don't want to leave& that takes heaps of work over time.
2006-12-25 02:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do. First of all you need to stop looking and it'll come to you. I believe there's someone out there for everyone. If people would stop trying so hard to find that other person. Second of all I've said this before and I'll say it again the way people are trying to find true love isn't the way they should do it. You need to contact the one matchmaker who knows you inside and out and would give you what you want and what you need and I'm talking about God. He's the only one who can give you your soulmate because he made you.
2006-12-25 01:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about the whole soulmate thing. But love runs from ocean deep to paper thin. Only found deep love once, and it was doomed from the start, felt like a soulmate and the inevitable end was awful. It is out there but so rare, I'm sure most people never find it.
2006-12-25 01:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe in it but so far they have not been lifers. I thought once it was 4 life but now I've come to the conclusion that people r put in your life 4 special reasons Like maybe just for birth of children 4 example.Seems like ya never know why until they're gone.That old saying is true ,when God takes something away he always gives u something in return.
2006-12-25 02:01:15 · answer #7 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Manlaw dictates that you cease and desist looking for this abstract phenomenon called "love".
Manlaw has established that men are productive and creative creatures while women are fickle, emotional ones.
Manlaw dictates that you fulfill your purpose in life which is to copulate, breed, and spread your seed -- thus leaving your legacy.
Manlaw dictates that you are to "LOVE" making love to a woman.
Nowhere in the edicts of manlaw does it expressly state that you MUST fall in love with a woman and marry her.
Read this 5 times and drink a beer to reflect.
2006-12-25 01:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is such a thing as a soulmate, but you won't spot her (isn't em a girl's name?) with the neon light above her head. Soulmates are developed, not found.
2006-12-25 05:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by doc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good things come to those who wait! I have been with my soul mate since the age of 18 , I am 38 now. I love this man with all my heart and soul for eternity,
2006-12-25 01:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋