A week ago, I met him at a singles dance party. He's a web software developer and I told him that I had designed and published my own site and asked him to check it out. I wrote down the URL and while doing so, he asked me for my email address. I forgot to ask for his. Yesterday he emailed me with 3 paragraphs of technical advice on my site, but no personal message at all. He ended with "Take Care".
I then replied by thanking him for the tips, that I would do some, not all of them. Then I told him that I was going to this other singles party which they gave out invite cards for at the first one and that he should go too. I also said maybe he and I could email back and forth if he was up for it.
I'm confused as to why he was so impersonal, yet he took the time to really look over my site and gave real pertinent advice. It's too soon for him to respond. I sent my reply late last night.
2006-12-25 01:36:26 · 3 answers · asked by Oh Wise One 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Manlaw has collected anecdotal evidence that most IT guys are not very "manly".
As such, the IT guy has remained strictly professional with you for one of the following three reasons:
(1) He is not that into you.
(2) He is new to this dating thing and doesn't recognize your flirting.
(3) He is a consummate professional and loves technology way more than the possibility of being with you.
As a women, your role is to drop your handkerchief.
Manlaw states that is the man's role to pick it up and return it to the lady owner.
Your only remaining option is to become cheap and obvious to try to force the relationship, but is that what you really want?
Good luck.
2006-12-25 02:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance to respond and then you'll know.
2006-12-25 01:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u tell me about him , by guessing i think he likes u
2006-12-25 01:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by anil b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋