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you know that there is no future for this relationship. he is from another religion

2006-12-25 00:57:27 · 13 answers · asked by 3ioosh s 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

How do you know he is the WRONG person? A future together is because of a person, not in spite of!

2006-12-25 01:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0 0

You have to learn to discern love from sexual attraction (lust). Many people mistake the rush of hormones accompanying sexual attraction as love. This is the legendary "chemistry" that people talk about. Love on the other hand is a conscious way of acting. Putting the other person's welfare first. "Romance is cotton candy, real love is what you do for each other."

So, there is no way to prevent yourself from being sexually attracted to "the wrong person." You have to use your power of reason to determine if the relationship really has a future. Not every person you are attracted to is a good match. Too many people try to ignore the signs that a relationship is not working or should never have begun. Knowing yourself well is one of the best "vaccines" you can get to forming the "wrong" relationship.

Take a look at the book "Are You the One for Me?" by Barbara DeAngelis.

2006-12-25 01:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by Magic One 6 · 0 0

THE main reason folks love the "wrong" person is that they lose themselves in order to have and keep a relationship. What does that mean? It means that a person MUST keep their own needs in mind in any relationship. It's not rocket science. If YOU aren't content and happy with what you give AND receive from the other person you are headed for umpteen miles of bad road, a rocky relationship, a life of frustration.
To get to your explanation, it's not the religion of the other that causes the problem it's that the religion (and the associated culture that goes with it) brings "baggage" if you will, that keep your needs and desires from being met. You must always determine if the love you get is worth the price you have to pay to get it.

2006-12-25 03:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0 0

It's impossible to prevent yourself from loving someone. What you're asking is how do you "get over" loving someone in another religion. That's the tough part. You could use any example of this guy is not right for you besides religion. Meaning, not every guy is right for every girl for many many reasons. Hmmm... it's tough to stop thinking about someone you really want to be with. I suggest evaluating your religious views.

2006-12-25 01:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 0 0

sorry hun, you can't. just don't get into a relationship with him. i've got the same deal where i need to be with another christian. it's the same with other religions because of morals and such. just be there friend, but don't get into anything more.

2006-12-25 01:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by SHANNON. 3 · 0 0

There is love in every religion...don't let that stop you!! GO GIRL

2006-12-25 01:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by Lulu 2 · 0 0

stop being so religion stupid and quit them all. named religion will be the end of this world.

2006-12-25 01:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0 0

i think it's stupid to prevent yourself from loveing someone, BUT i think that by concentrating on his/her bad parts(defects) can be a try... look for the worst parts he has..

2006-12-25 01:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by hackworth 2 · 0 0

Ignore him becoz ignorance is the best policy.

2006-12-25 01:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by ruchi 2 · 0 0

if you love sm1, the fact that he is from other religion is a small thing.........

2006-12-25 01:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by kittana! 2 · 0 0

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