I want to be REALLY flirty...?
i havent known this guy too long, we met thru mutual friends but i really like him, i think he might like me (not entirely sure) and he's going to my house for a get together in a few days. i want to be really flirty and let him know that i like him, but i dont want to be too showy or suggestive because he's quite shy and conservative... does any one know some good ways of getting that guys attention but not looking too out there ?
2006-12-25 00:16:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's conservative, don't dress to sexy; he might think you're easy or something.
Every time he looks at you, smile.
Compliment him on his hair, or shoes or whatever; just compliment him to a max of 3 times on that day.
If another girl is doing the same thing to this guy,then go and talk to him; ask him a few questions, and let him answer fully. Smile after he says anything, unless of course he upsets you or something.
If he's interested in you, he'll ask you some questions ... go from there.
Good luck!
2006-12-25 00:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by curly bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say I believe in the be yourself stuff, but it's not really a helpful suggestion. Try this.
Look him in the eyes when he speaks to you, and look really interested in what he says. We love that. Then, while he's speaking, make contact at appropriate times. A light arm rub if something he is saying is a bit sad, a hand on his chest if he's making you laugh, etc. If there are other people their, be the person to introduce him to them, and steer him around the room with your hand on his back. Be confident, but not loud and opinionated, as this really throw's guys, especially those a bit more conservative. And being summer, a nice light coloured (even white) sundress that shows just a little chest and comes to just above the knee, with a necklace that is interesting enough to draw his attention to your neckline. Believe it or, we find this area very appealing. And smile alot. It does wonders to make an already attractive face stunning.
2006-12-25 15:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by Armed Shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very simple. act naturally . dun let ur emotion control ur feelings. be responsive, spontaneous. interact well wif him . dress well, not too sexy though. try to communicate and being able to give ur output on the topics that he brought up. maybe , wont be any magic that night, maybe the other day. try to let him has a feeling whereby u r interesting and comfortable to be wif. try to enjoy his companion all the time. that can easily achieved coz u like him, right ? easy .. easy ..
2006-12-25 00:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by steen_012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss the girl
2006-12-25 00:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by JUDI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to flirt in a natural way u know what
2006-12-25 00:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself --- talk get to know him --- he will pick up that you like him and you will find out if he likes you
2006-12-25 00:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋