Me and a guy i have been working with for awhile, I've always had a crush on him but i knew he has a girlfriend so i kept clear. A few months ago we started getting along really well and sort of flirting, at the start didnt think it was anything, but the flirting got more serious. Anyway we have spoken about the whole thing several times and i have told him it needs to stop because my feelings will get hurt and that he has a girlfriend! Everytime we agree for it too stop it does for a little while then we are right back were it started, its getting to me because i have geniune feelings for this guy i do realise if he will do it to her he could do it to me and what not, im looking for advice on how to avoid getting hurt without us being weird around each other, we have to work together. Also nothing more than flirting has happened.
2006-12-24 23:23:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this guy really likes you he needs to dump his girlfriend for you. Otherwise he has figured out how much you like him and wants a little fling on the side. Unless this guy is willing to dump this girl for you , try to forget about him and try not to spend so much time with him if possible.
2006-12-24 23:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to work with him I suggest you that you should get close to him. But if you want not to hurt his girlfriend you two should explain to her the situation. If she understands then it's good for you. Also really think over that guy and check if its a normal crush or not. If you don't have to work with that guy then i think you should tell her girlfriend about it because it's a very loyal thing to do.
2006-12-24 23:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Maddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Get involved in activities outside of work. That'll help you meet other people aside from people at work.
2) Start dating other guys. You'll get a new perspective of men and you'd realise that your colleague pales in comparison to men out there.
3) Remind yourself constantly that if things get really serious, you'd be at the losing end and not him.
2006-12-24 23:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-18 23:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If neither of you are engaged to be married it is OK for you to date other people, but he needs to make that clear to his current girlfriend, then you two can enjoy each others company and explore your feelings further. Go get him tiger!
2006-12-24 23:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think he would dump his gf and be urs then go ahead don't think for a second more
2006-12-24 23:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by Dj Badboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just trapping u ok be aware of that person.
2006-12-24 23:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by satyabhamamoharathy2005 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do you know he'll hurt you ?
2006-12-24 23:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what feels good...
2006-12-24 23:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by Dirk Diggler 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋