Or will their be complication? Like that I am a virgin and she’s not. Would she worry if we got together that I might cheat on her, because I have only been with her. Which I would not do. Also girls what are your experiences of dating a guy who is a virgin? And also if you dated a guy like me who was a virgin how would you react? And also I want my first love to be my last love is anything wrong with wanting that?
2006-12-24 21:31:15 · 23 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, there certainly isn't. Its very rare these days for this kind of thing to be coming from a guy.
If I dated a guy who was a virgin, I'd think of it as very very special, which it is anyway with someone you love but more so because he would have chosen me, if you know what I mean. And i definately wouldn't worry about him cheating, if a man waits a long time to find that special someone to share this, the most intimate thing with, he's hardly going to go off at the first sign of easy sex is he?
Good Luck with it, I hope you find her soon. Have a lovely Christmas day
:-)
2006-12-24 21:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, it's right to wait to lose your virginity to someone special and hopefully someone you marry before you do so.
If I dated a guy that was a virgin? It's so rare now, that I'd be stunned to find it out. I'd probably look for some deformity and if there wasn't one, I'd think "dam you're one of a kind".
The only reason it is rare is because people are pressured into sex, by thinking they' need to hurry up and get laid, or suffer ridicule.
Wanting your first love to be your last love in life, is exactly how it was meant to be and how it should be. You have a very admirable outlook, if only more were this way.
You ask "is there anything wrong in wanting that"? See this is how the world is now, people actually feel odd or wrong if they want what is true and right that goes against the typical tide of the world. If you let the world dicate to you how to live your life and morals, you'll end up swept up with the rest. Go against the tide and hold onto your morals, regardless of what any girl thinks.
2006-12-25 05:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by Gus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with that at all! I'm a girl, and I recently lost my virginity to a boy I believe will be a boy I'm with forever. I'm also 20. I was 20 when I lost my virginity too, so honestly I think its SO awesome you want to wait for the right girl.
2006-12-25 05:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by memoriesareabeach 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with that at all, simply because there's nothing wrong with that, period.
Of course you want it to be with someone special who can appreciate it and you.
Someone who IS special will understand your choice, respect it and admire you.
I think that you are full of respect for yourself and people in general, and it's very commandable.
As far as I am concerned, what matters to me most when I'm dating someone, is that, that person is totally honest with me from day one.
So, it means getting to know that person, find what they are about, and enjoying their company more and more.
It's not very commun to meet a genuine guy. Good on you.
I wish you all the very best.
2006-12-25 05:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a male friend who lost his virginity when he was 35. He won't lie about something like this. He remained a virgin because he always believed that sex is for marriage and that he should wait for Mrs. Right. No, he's not ugly!
2006-12-25 09:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by Blodeuedd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a bit my wife was a virgin just make sue that special person is your wife alot happens to you when you leave virgin-hood you should be married your hormones go bezerk and you'll sleep with anything 8-80 blind, crippled, or crazy trust me get married first you'll be very happy because she'll be all you know and the best in the entire world and she'll be one of the very few girls around who'll be able to say that she is getting more than she can handle besides she can mold you into exactly what she wants hence she'll always be happy, trust me after ten years with my wife we are more than happy.
2006-12-25 05:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait till you get married. If you have sex with someone outside of marriage you don't know whether you will marry that person. If you want your first love to be your last love it would be wise for you to wait and lose your virginity after you get married.
2006-12-25 05:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont be in no rush buddy i lsot mine when i weaas 12 im now 17 and i regret it big time...be in no rush jsut wait and when the right person and time comes along you will no it...dont let peer presure get to ya...unless your the 40 yr old virgin then ya got a problem and ya need to get laid immediatley if that is the case get ahiold of me and ill send ya 200 dollars so ya can hire a whore or sumtin...j/k sry ig ot a really raunchy sense of humor good luck
2006-12-25 05:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To cut a long question short is it wrong!
Here's the short answer! No wait for Mr Right!
Hope you have a happy Christmas!
2006-12-25 09:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by Gilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o absolutely not, virginity is yours and you choose whom to give it to, and you are right for thinking of waiting for someone special and i think the world needs more boys like you. and remember no one can force you to do something that you don't want to do.
good luck and merry Christmas.
~xxx~
2006-12-25 05:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by LYDZII3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋