can you love someone too much???

Question

i.e if you want to be with them 24/7...i,ve been told its too much.

not with them 24/7,just miss them when apart.

Answer 1

I always love too much. I know you shouldn't. But it's the way I am and that's how I feel. I love with all my heart.

Answer 2

Yes ,that kind of love is usually an obsession .
People who get attached like this are usually insecure and need to be with that person to insure they don`t stray .Are you the jealous type ? That is a red flag when it comes to being possessive .In order for a relationship to have some worth ,you both need space to do the things " YOU " want . If you both have outside interests ,you will have something to talk about .That mystery of having a separate life ,keeps you both interested in each other .I was in a relationship ( marriage ) for 23 years,At first her possessiveness was cute ,then it became a problem .She got to the point that I was not to talk to ANY females -even my own cousins.I was accused of having affairs if i was 10 minutes late from work .You know .traffic jams , accidents .After 10 years she showed signs of mental illness and was impossible to live with .We divorced .Now she is a STALKER .So please seek help on why you need to be with this person 24/7 before you ruin a good thing.
Good Luck .Chefedone

Answer 3

Definately. There is no harm in showing your love for someone, however, if you keep on showing them too often or too much they become reliant on your love and take your love for granted. Before you know it you'll have no right of say or no way of showing any other feelings, appart from good ones, because the person you love will be so used to you constantly showing them love that when you try to show them any other feelings they won't no how to deal with it. They'll end up making a big thing out of it and thinking you're out of order or you've done something wrong.

Answer 4

I don't think that's too much at all [to WANT them 24/7. I'm sure his question doesn't say he IS with them 24/7!]. It's natural that your partner is great company for you, that's why you love them. I'm on my own right now, but sure at any given time I would love my boyfriend to be here.

If you want them by your side to the extent that you get clingy and don't want to be by yourself, it's a bit too much. You have to still remain your own person. Apart from that, love all you want!

Answer 5

24/7 cant be possible and practical. Well, it may be good and possible only during honeymoon.
We need to work, study, earn, travel, solve other problems and etc...we have got other serious obligations.
No doubt that loving someone to that extent is good but you just simply cant be together 24/7.
Love as much as you feel but be more practical.
Merry X-mass

Answer 6

Yes, I just lost my girlfriend and I am dying inside I have this horrible hollow feeling, and I want to die without her. I Love this girl so much I do not want to be without her. I just can not let go of her. It has been about a month now and ever time I try to hate her or do something else to get my mind off of her she pops back in my head and I break down. I have no feeling or care right now about anything but her. I think I have this false hope that I can not call false that we will get back together. We had talked about plenty of things in the future now I have no future in sight. I Love this girl with all my heart and I don't know why. So I think you can because I just wish it would break but no matter how hard I try I just can not let her go.

Answer 7

If you are truly in love with each other, there is nothing wrong with that, but if its a one-way type thing, then you have a problem. In any event, there are certain impracticalities with being with somebody 24/7, like, for example, love doesn't do anything for the bank account. ;-) There is nothing wrong with such devotion, but one must also look on the practical side and determine if it actually makes any sense.

Wishing you the best of luck.

Answer 8

I think it's ok to want, but being around someone 24/7 is too much. You should respect his/her space cuz they will get annoyed of having you around too much. Unless you both feel the same.

Answer 9

Yes, it's too much! It's very tiring to be the center of someone's universe. It's natural to want to hang out alot at the beginning of a relationship but you need to have your own friends & outside interests.

Answer 10

are you crazy, u can never love anybody too much!! i would love for somebody to love me like you obviously love this person. if you want to be around this person all of the time then you obviously really like them, if they really like you back then they should want to be around you all of the time too. as long as you dont get controlling and stop them from doing anything, like going out with friands and things then the relationship will be perfect. the feeling you get wen your apart will make the times you meet even better!