When I'm at Home or around the neigbor hood i always get told my voice is really loud and i'm very hyperactive... but when im at school i get told im shy?
but im not shy. for some reason when im talking to anyone at school my voice gos real low even if im not shy in front of them i try my hardest to get it up but i cant... do you think it has something to do that i used to get bullied alot at school so now im scared to express myself or show my true voice and behavior?
please help???
2006-12-24 18:59:21 · 6 answers · asked by jj s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
its ok. just be urself.if u think its because u have low confidence then may be this will help :
be proud of ur self, no matter what others say about u
u always have to be urself,coz ur not foolin anybody by tryin to b someone else.the only 1 ur foolin is urself
2006-12-25 01:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by nivya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u feel less confident in front of strangers... there is a a small possibility that u have a hearing problem...go check with a doctor ..if everything is fine..then try to be aware of ur voice level... and ask ur family to tell u when ever ur voice is too loud...ask a friend at a school to tell u when ur voice is too low...but the main effort must be done by u...u should try to be conscious about ur voice level.. after sometime u will b able to control it automatically. Am not worried about u being loud at home as much as am worried about u being shy ( or not being able to to speak loud enough) at school) that might give a false impression that u r weak... u have a little problem ..do not give too much weight...it is ok! i was shy at school and now: am the loudest in the class.
2006-12-25 03:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by gala-day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the people you are talking to have a hearing problem.
I used to get told the same thing growing up, Now I'm seen as a bitty for it. I wasn't ever bullied though.
Or maybe it's your ears that are throwing you off.
The louder it is around you the quieter you talk and the harder someone tries to listen to you. Kinda like when someone is whispering and theirs a hush in the room.
So, I wouldn't worry about it.
When your excited you get loud and when your relaxed your voice is calm.
2006-12-25 03:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by liquidblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really sucks and i wish i could help u but im in the same situation. I hope that one of the answers u get can help both of us good luck cuz we need it! haha
2006-12-25 03:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by m_es_84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just more comfortable at home.
BTW, this is in the wrong category.
2006-12-25 09:49:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be urself
2006-12-25 03:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋