i am with a guy that is sooooo nice, i mean the nicest guy ever. but i dont know if i like him so much as to go out anymore. but im not really sure if i want to saty together or breck up. NOTE: the guy is in love with me and he gave me a 200 dollar necklace for christmas. and i dont want to hurt him
2006-12-24 18:19:02 · 17 answers · asked by Twinkie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*** he buys u nice presents so u think u should stay w/ him? i'm sorry, but if he's this nice, and this generous, and this "in love" w/ u then i think u OWE it to him to leave him be if you're not in love w/ him. otherwise it's called "toying w/ his heart" and u really don't wanna hurt him then i'm thinking u wouldn't wanna crush him soooooooo let him go. don't burn the poor boy. he evidently deserves a little better treatment than THAT!
2006-12-24 18:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is in love with you. You should stay with him and also enjoy sex and love with him. He is your most valued friend. You are a very lucky girl as you have such a nice relation. He presented you a necklace on Christmass which is a token of his love and which indicated that he is really and sincererly in love with you. Good Luck.
2006-12-25 02:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask if you love him to strangers than you are just asking for support to break up with the guy. You like the guy, so tell him and give the necklace back.
2006-12-25 02:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, i think its better if you just break up with him, because the more you stay in the relationship that you guys have will be more hurtful for him especially when the day comes and he feels that you dont even have any special feelings for him that will be more hurtful.Plus, why stay if you dont even like the person? Like what other people says Money cannot buy love.
2006-12-25 02:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by leebag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself. If that's how you feel then do what you think is right. If he felt this way about you would you want him to stay with you for the sake of your feelings? He gave you that necklace because he cares about you and thought it would make you happy. If your not TOTALLY happy with him and he cares about you the way you think... he would rather have you be happy without him then miserable with him.
2006-12-25 02:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by Actually it's Ashley! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not feel like you can return the level of commitment and love, that he has invested in you, then the best thing to do is to break up and return the necklace to him.
2006-12-25 02:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep the necklace and when he phones you, don't answer and just try to distance yourself. Perhaps the relationship will just fizzle out on its own after a while.
2006-12-25 02:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by Staci C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself. Do you want to use this guy because he loves you and is generous toward you? Sometimes people need to be hurt. Would you be willing to marry this guy if he proposed? Stay with him if you love him.
2006-12-25 02:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see situations like this everyday but u shouldnt stay with a guy just cuz he buys u nice things, if u dont love him, kick him to the curb
2006-12-25 02:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To breck or not to breck - that is the question.
2006-12-25 02:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋