2006-12-24 15:58:26 · 15 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personally cant stand that its one of my pet pieves as they say but i've also found its almost impossible to find anyone who doesnt have some kind of feelings or atleast fond or involved memories with someone else if you do god keep them, if you dont I wouldnt be surprised I havnt but that doesnt mean anything, anyways I guess it all depends on the depth of the feelings memories are one thing actual feelings then why are they not together, I mean use you common sense here if he is disrespecting you and talking to her or doing things with her or whatever then NO, if its just hay were friends now and had a past together but now i'm moved on you know whatever like I said they all have that it sucks but you know, Good Luck Kim
2006-12-24 16:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better for you to wait until s/he has no more feeling towards his/her ex. Of course there is a chance that s/he might end up with you if you are by his/her side all the time, be there when s/he needs you. Over the time that person might be able to let go of his/her ex and find out that you really are the one for him/her. But theres also the risk that you are just his/her rebound, until s/he is back with the ex, or s/he finds someone new.
I'll say be friend with him/her until s/he is totally sure that s/he has gotten over the ex.
Good luck.
2006-12-25 00:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience this young woman/man is an ex for a reason. It is perfectly normal for your current beau to have feelings for their ex. Who does not have feelings to a certain degree for their ex? Just focus on the two of you. however don't turn a blind eye to the situation. \make sure you know his/her motives with you and from there decide what you want to do. Once you've made your decision don't waiver on it stick to it. My current bf was previously engaged when I met him. That was a year ago. We currently live together and are planning to get married. With that being said just decide if this man/woman is worth your time and love. Every relationship has drama my dear. So this one is no different. Good luck.
2006-12-25 00:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by trenay0023 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I definatelly wouldn't recomend it, YOU WILL GET HURT!!!!! and I don't think you want that... I you really like the other person wait until he gets over the ex and then try... But if he still has strong feeling for the ex then all I can say is be careful, I would want you to get hurt by something like this...
2006-12-25 00:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to take that risk? Don't you see you may come get hurt? The best thing is not to get involve with this person until you are 200% sure the other person is just a remember. Just go out occasionally and try to do things he/she didn't do with this person and to go into places where this person didn't go with he/she.
2006-12-25 01:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there really a point to do so? You'd basically be ''second best'' to that person's ex, until they can come to the realization that their relationship with their ex is over, and probably not going to re-occur.
2006-12-25 00:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mara
If he is going out with you despite feelings for the EX, obviously he is trying to overcome those feelings with your help. Assist him in his endeavour.
2006-12-25 00:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not wrong, you just have to understand that you may be a rebound date.....and probably deal with convo abou the ex all night.
2006-12-25 00:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all know the right thing to do in our heart
2006-12-25 00:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not too smart. Why give yourself the grief?
2006-12-25 00:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by linka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋