2006-12-24 15:47:16 · 9 answers · asked by jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah its wrong. Especially if you already made it known that you like the guy. If she knew you did... maybe she felt... "you snooze you lose."
The last thing you wanna be doing is competing with your bestfriend for a guy. But... the first thing you wanna start doing in the future... is claim that man... whether you know if he likes you or not. If she still goes for him... then lose her... she ain't a friend.
2006-12-24 15:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Ocean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always a good idea to discuss it with the best friend first. If they really like the person it might ruin the friendship if it isn't talked about first. It isn't wrong though to most people. Most people just think about themselves and what they want first without thinking of other peoples feelings. I know that we can't control who we fall for and sometimes we do end up in that situation but best friends should always talk about that stuff. I know for me I asked out a guy my bestfriend liked not thinking anything of it and it really hurt her because she was just trying to get the courage to ask him out herself. Thank goodness after talking it out we saved our friendship but some friendships are lost because of similar things.
2006-12-24 16:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by momof3boys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person is a true friend then they wouldnt try to hurt you by stealing someone you like.
2006-12-24 15:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i had a best friend who liked the guy i liked and he liked her back instead of me....id tell her to go for it because she is a best friend and all and id want her to be happy.
2006-12-24 16:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's wrong. and if u had ur crush on him, u should have ask him out or something cuz this is ur fren, maybe some1 had asked him out. right now u'r getting mad at ur best fren but wat will u do to the other girls who will go out with him. ask him out when he's all single.
2006-12-24 16:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. if i was your best friend i would totally date who you liked just to get you mad. haha, that means that you're ugly and i'm prettier and i'll always get the guy in these situations. so deal with it.
2006-12-24 16:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think its wrong. I mean just cause you tell her first that you like him doesn't mean you own him, and really its not her fault that he happened to like her that way.
2006-12-24 15:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no unless she say she doesnt want u to go with him!
2006-12-24 16:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope...cause the person is not ur boyfriend.....so why cant they do that?
2006-12-24 15:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by jingwen l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋