My friend was turned down by this really awesome girl. He saw her hugging her friend(who is a girl) and got all jealous. She was justtrying to consol her friend who just lost her father.
He wants to know if it is normal to be jealous even when it is two girls. Is it??
He is not normally a jealous person. He is normally very relaxed.
2006-12-24 15:00:39 · 18 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was never jealous of his ex when she would flirt with other guys. He just wants to know if this feeling of jealousy is normal.
2006-12-24 15:03:26 · update #1
That's kinda wierd. I dunno. I don't think so.
2006-12-24 15:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion this sort of behavior isn't normal not when this girl has just lost her father. The guy should really have some compassion and be considerate.
This sounds like he isn't as laid back as you think and actually someone who in the long run will be very smoothering to his girlfriend.
Tell your friend to relax and not be so jealous... this friend needs her friends to be there for her and console her during this time after all this was her father!
If he cant understand that then he needs and should be alone and this girl should not be involved with him whatsoever.
Girls are more emotional than guys and need to be consoled in that way. Whereas in some cases guys tend to hide their feelings and hurt because it's considered not normal "to girly"
Also tell your friend to just back off if he can't try to participate in being there for this girl and consoleing her also. Sometimes knowing that you have the support of all your friends during such a tragic time means so much!
One thing that isn't on this poor girls mind is this guy! Not Now!
ps
tell you friend instead of being jealous and trying to push up on this poor child thats lost her father why not get her a sympt. card and to grow up!
Sorry to be so up front here but this is just insane and completly not right for this guy to be acting like this!
2006-12-24 15:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooh I see a definite problem here. How could you be jealous of another girl consoling someone over the lost of their father? Dude, so not normal in my eyes. AND just because he's normally relaxed doesn't mean he can't be a jealous type person.
Geez... I'd hate to see how he'd react if she was hugged up with some guy that lost his father!!
2006-12-24 15:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ocean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he must really like this girl and his jealousy may be misinterpreted - I think that he may be confused because he sees her hugging (showing affection) to someone else - regardless of gender. He wants the affection and attention from her and he's not getting it so he's jealous of the fact that someone else has the opportunity to be close to her. I don't think its jealousy per say he's working through his rejection and hurt through normal feelings of frustration and some anger.
2006-12-24 15:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by pj26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you able to assert administration Freak? supply me a smash! If he has never given a rationalization for her to act so jealous, then she is heavily disturbed and he could desire to run for the hills and not in any respect seem back. Oh and end when you consider that effed up therapist. She is feeding into that moron's twisted and private hell of jealousy.
2016-10-05 23:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not normal at all. your friend needs to get a grip, seriously. he has absolutely no reason to get jealous of this girl, regardless of who it is she's hugging.
since this guy is your friend, maybe you could talk to him and try to talk some sense into him before he ends up with this girl getting a restraining order against him. he really does need to get himself under control. ask him is he knows the definition of the words stalker and obsession.
you're being a good friend by trying to help.
Hope you have a Merry Christmas!
2006-12-24 15:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm wel if he not normally lealous then maybe it was just a wierd time but if he usually is like this then it is not normal, she is a girl nd most of the time girls dont go after girls now hugging another guy then i can see that however if it is a friend and she hugs him you cant get mad casue that would be like her telling you not to do that to a really good freind that is a girl its not fair on either of your parts
2006-12-24 15:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think that he should be jealous at all because the girl was just trying to support her friend by hugging i mean i hug my friends every time i see them so tell the friend to not be jealous
2006-12-24 17:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by sassy suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way in hell is that normal. Tell him that alot of girls are really touchy feely types, so get used to it. He is also probably a bit emotional considering she turned him down. Rejection happens, just make him feel better.
2006-12-24 15:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldn't be jealous at all, no matter wat. he just has to control himself. u should tell him that whenever a person is jealous it shows u can never hide the face of jealousy. tell him it's not like she is a lesb, and plus guys should never be jealous of other girls, that's just wrong
2006-12-24 15:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by Katleen F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he might be gay...I don't know alot of guys who don't like seeing two girls touch in anyway...Or he has some real jealousy issues..
2006-12-24 15:03:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋