I've been working for my boss now for a year and a half. Four months after I started working there I noticed that there was and attraction on both our parts. Now I need to know what should I do? He's not married, have no kids, and he's a doctor.
2006-12-24 14:58:54 · 15 answers · asked by tastemeagin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just let it happen if it is meant to be it will proceed on...He is the boss, let him make the first move, if you are reading him wrong, you will be hurt..
2006-12-24 15:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the old saying...."don't crap where you eat?"
Make sure you're willing to go through the crap of a bad break up and being fired and possibly embarrassed or harassed by this Doctor. If he is an important figure in the work place, you can be sure he will have an ego to need 'stroking' if you two don't work out or if you don't like the fact that he used you for a piece of tail.
Be careful sweetie, professional men are a tricky breed! The attraction between you is more than likely just 'heat'. He's making money, no wife or kids...the world is his play ground.
2006-12-24 23:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by Knuckledragger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First remember what might happen if it doesn't work out. Second, think about what some of the other co-workers might say about the scenario.
Then if it still looks good to you, offer to take him to lunch. While you are out to lunch, talk about some things you enjoy doing and see if he wants to join you after hours. This is a good slow (safe) way to break into it. If he is willing at that point, then you will probably start dating.
Good luck. You never know.
2006-12-24 23:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to grab a bite to eat after work ?
Some people believe you should not date where you work .
He may feel that way .
He may even be a closet queen .
Good luck .
2006-12-25 00:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this doesn't seem really smart to me telling him you like him, because if you two break up or something bad goes down. he can always fire you because he's your BOSS let the attraction be there but dont' act on it.
2006-12-24 23:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by xxdelicious_l1psxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u share the same work place
that means u can express ur self easily
tell her ur feelings but not as if they r yours
speak as u do for a friend of yours and get his response but give him subtle hints that it is about u and him
BEST OF LUCK
2006-12-24 23:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by shaikh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take any risk to my point of view. Just start out slow or else it will just get messy.
2006-12-24 23:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by A Journey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you just find time to talk to him about things , say what his enterest are, then if he's enterested in you, you would notice that, and if there's nothing there, then there's nothing there. you don't have to put your feelings on the table. that's if it's me.
2006-12-24 23:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you'd like to work some overtime with him for free.
2006-12-24 23:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
let him tell you he wants to get to know you better.....show some signs that you are interested by simple flirting...nothing to drastic though, you dont want to risk losing your job just incase
2006-12-24 23:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by toloveastephanie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋