The guy I love have known for many years. We have grown up together and see each other only sometines during the year. Every time we see each other its like we just want it to be us and noone else around us. I love him and I know that I am only making myself sad by loving him since I wont see him until I dont know when. My family doesnt know how I feel except my sister knows how I feel about him. He is my exboyfriend but he is the guy I am in love with. Whenever he is around me I get butterflies in my stomach. I saw him finally after many months of anticipating and the sparks were there once again. I don't know what to do. This is the guy I love, the man of my dreams, my everything. It hurts me so much when he leaves because i know that I don't know how long it will be to the next time I see him. I can call him, and we can write letters back and fourth but we dont see each other and it hurts me so much. What do you think I should do becuase the next time I see him I dont want him to go
2006-12-24 14:53:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't make a way to see him I am seventeen years old and Idont have a car. Also he lives a state away from me. We cant do anything until we are eighteen years old.
2006-12-24 14:59:45 · update #1
I dunno, that's just too much text to read.
2006-12-24 14:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if he lives far away or works away from you, then it is something that you two have to work out. That is between the both of you in deciding whether the relationship can last. If he is your ex, then I wonder why he is if you all still get along so well. If he is not seeing someone else and distance is the only hindrance, then I would suggest just talking to him and telling him exactly how you feel. It does help to have a trusted friend to lean on and to talk to as well. I hope it all works out for you and that you come to a decision so that your mind can be at peace. Don't let anyone get you down or doubt yourself. Make the right decision for yourself after listening to and weighing al of your options and go with your gut feeling--what you can live with in the future.
2006-12-24 15:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if he is interested in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship that must be mutual. Both of you need to be able to sit down together and be sure this is what you both want. In your statement I can only see your side of the issue. I had someone I loved, I still think of this person, but I know we'll never see each other unless by accident and I'm okay with that. I've also come to realize I would rather have someone who remains close and she is wonderful. You have butterflies because you are still unsure if he is the right guy. Both of you need to explore this. If he has other interests let him go and you need to move on as well.
2006-12-24 15:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by danielm_59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, thats really sad. i think if you have a gut feeling you should go for it. it depends on how long you have known him, but you should try to figure out if he feels at all the same. i was in a similar situation, but it sadly didnt end well. But what you should know is even if it doesnt work out you have your friends and family who loves you no matter what, so it cant be all that bad. hope it works out for you. just remember, if you feel it in your heart that he feels the same then there is definately something that needs to be done!
2006-12-24 15:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there. Recently, I'm talking this year.
you gotta tell him how you feel. what have you got to loose? nothing. if he feels the same way then you've gained the guy, if he doesn't, then you've lost nothing. life is short chick, don't put off for tomorrow, when you can do it today. even the precious Word Of God tells us tomorrow is not promised. go for it, write out your feelings in a letter to him.
good luck
2006-12-24 15:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by Selena Jade's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably the best guy for you, and if you really like him, youll take him off the market, by telling him your feelings. Its christmas, so use your imagination, the possibilities are endless.
Good luck
2006-12-24 14:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by youshouldbedead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read this carefully depression is part of love but when you are this far apart and time apart then it will be advisible to let him go i know it's the hardest decision for a love blinded person but think of the emotional destruction
2006-12-24 15:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by net lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk to him and tell him how u feel. it would make u more happier since u dont have to obses over this situation. move pass this and move on. good luck and have a happy christmas and happy holidays.
2006-12-24 15:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. If he feels the same go with him.
2006-12-24 14:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by dontknow86 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find a way to be with him....
2006-12-24 14:57:26 · answer #10 · answered by xxdelicious_l1psxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what u feel
2006-12-24 14:56:27 · answer #11 · answered by shaikh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋