i have been with my fiance for a year and a half. we broke up in september of 05 for a month. when we got back together we moved in with each other. about 3 weeks after we got back together i found out that he had been talking with another girl before we even broke up and then she called his house after we got back together. since then i have had some issues trusting him around other girls. i have forgiven him but it is hard to not have that in the back of my mind. What can i do to get past this? I feel like i can trust him to not make the same mistake twice bc i seen what it did to him and he begged me not to break up with him, but now he gets mad if i get question him around women. is there any hope? plz help
2006-12-24 14:50:09 · 7 answers · asked by CountryGal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl it is going to take time for u to beable to trust him but if u really love him and u want to be with him then it will just take time but u might starte to trust him again its posiable but if he startes calling girls then u need to just give up on him and try to move on k GOOD LUCK
2006-12-24 15:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your both co-dependent. You will only put yourself through living hell staying with him. It is not your job to look out for him, especially if he is flirting around. Trust me, I have been on both ends of this deal. Now that he is living with you, does he stay out all night sometimes? If he is not already, he will be cheating on you, he might have some needs you won't or can't fulfill. I would leave him.
2006-12-24 15:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by Road 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the trust has been brocken ,and it dosnt matter what happens down the track when you have a fight you are always going to throw up this infedelity,if he loves you he will bear it ,other wise a gap will open ,sorry to be negative
2006-12-24 14:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, your fear and insecurity are showing big time.do you feel that you are so unworthy of this man, because that is the way you are acting, and trust me it will drive him away. accept that he made a mistake or give him up, there is no other choice, and I am sure you are not expecting perfection, in him or yourself.
2006-12-24 14:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM IN A FRIENDLY MANNER AND THE TRUST IS SOMETHING YOU CAN GIVE ANYTIME AS LONG AS IT'S NOT ABUSED AND PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES CHANGE AND LEARN
2006-12-24 14:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by net lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive, but don't ever forget. I personally wouldn't give this guy another shot, but if you think you truley love him, than you need to express your feelings to him.
2006-12-24 14:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there isn't and it's his choices that bought all this mistrust aboard any way.you don't trust him and you shouldn't trust him any more.
2006-12-24 14:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋