Honest opinion needed?
If you got a girl pregnant who was only a booty call would you want to know? And girls would you tell him? Not saying you would or wouldnt have the baby, but would you tell em?
2006-12-24 14:49:44 · 18 answers · asked by we w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i got pregnant from a booty call i would tell him because i would want him to know he has a child and possibly be in its life.........
2006-12-24 14:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by lisa_08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I'm giving you my honest opinion. I would tell the guy just to let him know. I would also keep the baby. No matter if "you" were a booty call or not you made a baby so you should keep it and let the father know. good luck if this is happening to you.
2006-12-24 14:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by xxdelicious_l1psxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would tell him for multiple reasons
one being the fact that he has the RIGHT to know that you are carrying his child.
two being the fact that if he is not acknowledged as the baby's father then you can hold him to pay child support.
three is because if you do not tell him then you probably will not tell your child, which is wrong. The baby will grow up thinking that his/her father left y'all or something like that when really it is just because YOU failed to tell him.
There are Pros and Cons within each situation, so before you make up your mind think about the future for you, the baby , and him.
2006-12-24 15:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by smile24_8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a girl and it would depend on what the guy was like, I can support and baby on my own, I wouldnt need his money, However if the guy was nice I thought he would be a good dad with out me in the picture I would tell him.
2006-12-24 14:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by dontknow86 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think any man who creates a child, booty call or not, has the right to know.
Yes, I would certainly tell him. And then he would certainly need to be part of the entire thing, whatever decision was made - beginning to end. His child too.
2006-12-24 14:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't tell him. most guys wouldn't want to know and it won't be so bad being a single mum. it gives you a nice bond with the kid. i wouldn't tell him unless i want child support money.
if i did tell him, what would he do anyways? i was only a booty call right? any help would be an obligation rather than from affection or genuine concern. he'd probably run a mile anyways.
in short, i wouldn't tell unless i really needed help.
2006-12-24 14:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Booty call or not, a condom shouldve been used. This wouldve never happen in the first place.
Of course, unless you both want it which is, I gather, not the case.
Anyway, my answers are all, NO.
2006-12-24 14:57:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the girl should tell the guy who got her pregnant. this is something they did together, and he's partly responsible. he could at least be there for emotional support.
Best Wishes
2006-12-24 14:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your relationship, and situation. If I were to have the baby I would undoubtedly tell him. If I chose not to have it, I would tell him if we knew each other but not if it was a mere stranger and a one-night stand.
2006-12-24 14:53:52 · answer #9 · answered by Katie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty no i would not have the baby cuz that's just asking for baby-momma-drama. plus there no love think about the helpless baby. true love will want to be there willing and help out with everthing the baby will need!!!!!!!
2006-12-24 14:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by memjabeana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋